I know this is a common problem on here, but I don't know how to approach our no kid rule for our wedding. We'll be having a destination wedding in Hawaii, so we figured it would be more affordable for our friends and family to come without kids. We know for a fact that none of the parents with children would need to hire help to watch their children while they're gone. I see it as a good idea financially, for everyone. I'm just struggling with the nicest way to tell people. I don't know if a quick text is too informal, or telling them over a phone call would get mixed reactions. Any advice is helpful!!