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Help! My family is too big

Natalie, on July 7, 2019 at 9:14 PM Posted in Planning 0 5

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Hey you guys!
So my wedding date is on October 26th, since we already got married we’re doing a small ceremony followed by a big reception with our family and friends.
We want kids at the wedding but due to our venue making us pay for kids at an adult price we decided to do no kids.
Now we have a ton of family not wanting to come due to them not having anyone to take care of their kids. I don’t know what to do because it doesn’t matter which way we look at it someone will be upset....

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Latest activity by Jessica, on July 8, 2019 at 6:47 PM

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Jessica · on July 7, 2019 at 9:24 PM
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There’s no way to please everybody. You have to do what’s best for the two of you and your budget. It’s unfortunate that several people can’t make it because they don’t have childcare, but if you can’t afford to host everyone’s kids then you can’t afford it.
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Pirate & 60s Bride · on July 7, 2019 at 9:29 PM
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Exactly this. And because you already sent invites, don’t change it now. Whomever is meant to be there will be there.
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Sara · on July 7, 2019 at 9:38 PM
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Date twins! We’re not inviting kids either for the same reason, and we’re already at 210 adults. As a courtesy if you’re able to you can look into providing child care at your venue for guests with kids. But I know a lot of work goes into it so it, and it can get costly. If you know sitters that you can recommend to guests that’s an option too. But I think overall people will have to just accept it. Weddings are not always kid-friendly events and that’s to be expected. If the adults really want to be there they will figure it out
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Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on July 7, 2019 at 9:47 PM
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It’s impossible to make everyone happy. Do what’s best for you and your budget.
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Just Said Yes June 2020
Jessica · on July 8, 2019 at 6:47 PM
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I agree with everyone. My wedding is also going to be kid free and honestly, we're hoping some people won't come because of this. We have a big family combined without including friends and we only want the people we know will be there to support us. Our budget played a big part in our no kids decision. It's about the two of you and your love for each other. If people want to be there, they will be there with no kids. Good luck to you two.
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