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Help!! moh decision

on July 18, 2019 at 11:15 PM Posted in Planning 0 5
Guys!! I will be proposing to my Bridesmaids this weekend. Well, some know they are but I will make it official. I was planning to chose my friend of 20years whom I trust with all of my heart and been through all with me as my MOH. But I feel it would hurt 2 of my other close friends. Friend A..10 years of friendship, had a fallout September 2016 and made up April 2018 and that’s because I reached out. She told me as soon as I got engaged that she hopes she would be my MOH..I responded “LOL”.
Friend 2..known each other for since 2015. She’s been a great friend and very supportive. I was her MOH last yr and she gave an amazing speech about me, how grateful she was about the way I helped her during her wedding. It was so touching and sweet, it made many people cry. I believed that solidified our friendship. I feel bad she’s not gonna be my MOH because I was hers (although 2nd choice.lol). I know she would be understanding but I still feel bad. How do I make everyone happy? If I make friend 2 a MOh in addition to my current choice, what happens to friend 1. I just want to make everyone happy. I don’t want anyone feeling less important or holding a grudge. This is so hard!! What do I do?😒

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Latest activity by Tim, on August 6, 2019 at 5:35 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    You stick with the decision you’ve already made. You’re going to learn quickly that, when it comes to wedding planning, it’s impossible to make everyone happy. If your friends decide to focus on the negative (that they’re not MOH,) instead of the positive (that you asked them to be bridesmaids,) then that’s their own issue. They’re allowed to be disappointed, but they will get over it.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    You could even opt for no MOH at all
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    I agree with this! This way you don't risk hurting anyone's feelings Smiley smile

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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    That was going to be my suggestion.
    Not that you have to justify any decisions, but you could tell them it was too hard to pick one of them so they're all equal honors!
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  • Tim
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Tim ·
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    Pull the name out of a hat. When questioned tell them how you had to choose
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