Guys!! I will be proposing to my Bridesmaids this weekend. Well, some know they are but I will make it official. I was planning to chose my friend of 20years whom I trust with all of my heart and been through all with me as my MOH. But I feel it would hurt 2 of my other close friends. Friend A..10 years of friendship, had a fallout September 2016 and made up April 2018 and that’s because I reached out. She told me as soon as I got engaged that she hopes she would be my MOH..I responded “LOL”.
Friend 2..known each other for since 2015. She’s been a great friend and very supportive. I was her MOH last yr and she gave an amazing speech about me, how grateful she was about the way I helped her during her wedding. It was so touching and sweet, it made many people cry. I believed that solidified our friendship. I feel bad she’s not gonna be my MOH because I was hers (although 2nd choice.lol). I know she would be understanding but I still feel bad. How do I make everyone happy? If I make friend 2 a MOh in addition to my current choice, what happens to friend 1. I just want to make everyone happy. I don’t want anyone feeling less important or holding a grudge. This is so hard!! What do I do?😒