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Kari
Master May 2020

Help me pick a veil!

Kari, on December 30, 2019 at 12:12 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 1 6

My dress is Mikaella 2100 (see photos of "real brides" in the dress here: https://mikaellabridal.com/real-brides-style-2100) and I'm trying to pick out if I want a veil or not, and what type of veil.


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I bought my dress off StillWhite and have it at home, so I can't try it on with different veils at a bridal shop to see what they look like with it. I either need to guess how it will look based on photos (thank goodness for the "real brides" section on Mikaella's site) or need to buy things and try them at home.

I think I'd like to wear a veil for the ceremony and some photos. It just feels really bridal to me and I'll never have another opportunity to wear one. The dress is a fit-and-flare silhouette with a train, so I think I need either a fingertip length veil (so it ends around the point where the dress flares out) or a cathedral length. I love the drama of a cathedral length veil and the creative photos you can create with one (love those photos of couples kissing under the veil, or the veil tossed in the wind), but worry it might hide my dress too much and also that it may be cumbersome. A fingertip length veil is probably a bit more practical but definitely less dramatic.

I was thinking a plain tulle veil or a veil with subtle beading or pearls, either around the edges or scattered throughout. I don't want anything too "heavy" and don't care for rhinestones and "bling" much, instead preferring more subtle accents.

Our wedding ceremony is planned to be outdoors, on grass, on a hill overlooking a farm and mountain the background. Our cocktail hour and reception will be held down at a modern barn designed for weddings, and I'd likely remove the veil after photos so I don't need to worry about it for the rest of the night.

Thoughts?
Did you wear a veil and love it, hate it?
If you wore a fingertip veil, did you get creative photos utilizing the veil, or was it just kind of an extra accessory?
Did your veil need to constantly be readjusted and "styled" to look good, or was it a good addition to your look without a ton of extra work?

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Latest activity by Kristen, on December 30, 2019 at 2:02 PM
  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    I have a veil and my dress has a train so it does flow with the train. I think tulle or mantilla style fingertip could work and be beautiful with your dress.
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  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
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    Can you take your dress with you if you make accessories appointments at salons? I bought my dress at a sample sale, so it’s at home as well, and I took it with me when I went to an accessories appointment I made.
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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    I feel like a mantilla style veil is too "much" for me. I definitely want a more delicate look, and although I think they are super pretty (especially on longer veils where the lace edging is concentrated near the train), I don't think I want so much heavy lace near my face.

    I was originally thinking just a plain tulle veil (I bought one for $13 on Amazon, so I can at least see what the length looks like with my dress), but then I really love the look of these too. They are all by the same Etsy shop. I'm almost tempted to try to hand bead the veil I bought (I just think it would be fun to DIY one aspect of my wedding), but these are about $80 on Etsy for fingertip length, so I think that's reasonable. I definitely think fingertip length is more practical, I just don't know if it will have the same impact on photos and how I feel as a cathedral length veil would. And with the styles below, I don't know if the beading/pearls would cause the veil to catch on the lace of my dress at all.


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    https://www.etsy.com/listing/475421693/pearl-wedding-veil-crystal-bridal-veil?ref=hp_rf-2&pro=1&frs=1


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    https://www.etsy.com/listing/459635392/pearl-bridal-veil-beaded-wedding-veil-1?ref=hp_rf-1&pro=1&frs=1


    Help me pick a veil! 4

    https://www.etsy.com/listing/505285234/pearl-bridal-veil-scattered-pearl?ref=hp_rf-4&pro=1&frs=1


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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    Oh I hadn't thought of that and didn't realize you could do that. I don't want to spend a fortune on a veil though, and I don't know if I'd feel guilty bringing my dress to a shop that I likely wasn't going to actually purchase anything from. There is only one bridal store within an hour of me and I tried on a couple veils there when I originally went dress shopping but didn't love any of them for the price they cost.


    I did order a $13 fingertip length veil on Amazon, just so I can see how the length looks with my dress. I figure even if I decide I want a different veil, it would be good to use for my hair trial so I don't have to worry about accidentally damaging my actual veil if I get a more expensive or handmade one.

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  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
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    I definitely understand. I tried on a veil with my dress during my appointment but didn’t end up buying (the one I liked cost more than my dress!). I’ll be ordering one online from David’s now knowing what I want it to look like. I did end up buying a hair piece during my appointment, so I didn’t feel bad about not purchasing a veil, but I can understand why you’d feel that way.
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Oh that is lovely and could work. My veil has a more thinner mantilla style because I did not want too thick. I think some nice beading on the edge could be lovely.
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