I left suggested dress code off my invitation and website, because I thought it was weird to tell people how to dress. Now a lot of folks are asking me for it, so I think I should add something to the site.
It's an outdoor wedding and reception, 4 pm, at a crumbling old hacienda in the mountains of Mexico.
My very gender-normative thought is: for men, pretty much any color slacks and a dress shirt, blaze; ties not required but also not out of place. For women, a cocktail dress or or dressy maxi-- dressier than a beach wedding / garden party but not much?
What would you call this? Creative cocktail? Resort chic? Garden party formal? Something else?
I truly don't care too much what people wear, but I understand that folks want guidelines so they're not super overdressed or underdressed.