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May 2020

Help! i messed up the Rsvps

Illa, on February 18, 2020 at 9:19 AM Posted in Planning 0 10

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I have already mailed our RSVP cards with the invitations. We did not realize until 2 days later that the address on the RSVP cards is incorrect. We checked and there is no such address on our street. What can we do to rectify this? I feel awful as it was my mistake. The bride is definitely unhappy with me. The Post Office cannot do anything because it is not a viable address that we put on stickers

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Latest activity by Illa, on February 18, 2020 at 4:25 PM

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Danielle · on February 18, 2020 at 9:25 AM
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Awww man that's bad. Maybe you can create a link or an mass email to the guests with the correct rsvp address.
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Illa · on February 18, 2020 at 9:27 AM
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Yes, its bad. Worse that im the brides future mom in law. Ive called everyone I had a number for, and posted on social media, and dont have email addresses for some. We have 2 months left. Do you know if I can get just RSVP cards and resend?
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Danielle · on February 18, 2020 at 9:35 AM
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Yes. Future mil you sure can. I'm sure she'll appreciate it too.
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Illa · on February 18, 2020 at 9:37 AM
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Im pretty sure after she spoke to me yesterday, that shed rather me just leave her aline. But, im going to correct my idiosy in any case.
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Mandi · on February 18, 2020 at 10:11 AM
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Any chance you live in a small town with a super nice postmaster? Because my small town has delivered things with only my name and city, state and zip code. No address at all.

Could you possibly just mail out labels and say oops, smack this on your RSVP.
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Illa · on February 18, 2020 at 10:23 AM
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It might just work
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Samantha · on February 18, 2020 at 10:47 AM
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Yes, you can just get RSVP cards and resend. That seems like your best option. I understand the bride preferring to be left alone at this point. It's a stressful situation and I wouldn't take it personally. If you don't have a great relationship with the bride, could you talk to your son/daughter and tell them your idea? Then, let them give you the go ahead?
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Sarah · on February 18, 2020 at 3:10 PM
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Could you just change to an online RSVP?
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May 2020
Illa · on February 18, 2020 at 3:31 PM
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Thank you. Yes, I have spoken with my son. I am the financial backing for their wedding. I am paying for most of it. I just hate that my mistake has caused her to lash outward at me with such hatred.
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Illa · on February 18, 2020 at 4:25 PM
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She is considering it. Sigh. Some of the older folks do not use emails or social media, but can be called or sent another. I don't know what she will decide. She is still pretty angry at me.
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