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laura
Expert June 2017

Help I have back fat!

laura, on June 13, 2017 at 2:43 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 81

Ok so the title it a bit more dramatic than needed, BUT I am paranoid and don't feel great about this. The dress was taken in about 5" and I haven't gained weight since my first fitting. When I asked the women about this she said it needed to be tight to stay up. What do y'all think? How terrible...

Ok so the title it a bit more dramatic than needed, BUT I am paranoid and don't feel great about this. The dress was taken in about 5" and I haven't gained weight since my first fitting. When I asked the women about this she said it needed to be tight to stay up. What do y'all think? How terrible does this really look? It fits very well in the front. Is this normal?!

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  • love8432
    Super May 2018
    love8432 ·
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    Um there not back fat...

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  • FutureMrs2017
    Super May 2017
    FutureMrs2017 ·
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    See...this is why I'm against strapless dresses. I swear they make you feel bigger than you are! You can be a size 2 and those things will still make you feel like you have fat spilling over ETA: even though you feel that way, OP, rest assured you look amazing in that dress!

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  • Tabatha
    Super August 2017
    Tabatha ·
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    No one is going to be looking at that tiny skin roll in the back. It has to be tight so that's just the way it's suppose to be. It's not fat at all.

    Trust the lady

    It looks great Smiley smile

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  • Robyn
    Super June 2017
    Robyn ·
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    Ummmm no

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  • AdventuresofRuth
    VIP October 2017
    AdventuresofRuth ·
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    No fat, your skin has to be able to bunch for you to stretch your arms. There is no excess fat.

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  • DoggoMom
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    DoggoMom ·
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    You look amazing! You don't have back fat at all! When your mom/bridesmaids help you into your gown have them push your skin away from your spine and towards your underarms to help spread things out. If you are self conscious about it then mention it to your photographer too and they will give you a heads up as the dress shifts throughout the day. My dress stretched out a bit and by the reception the tightness around my chest was gone.

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  • Rochelle
    Expert June 2017
    Rochelle ·
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    I don't see any fat. Now I have a 10 month old I'll show you some back fat. Lmbo You look great!

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  • Heather
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    Heather ·
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    There IS NO fat on You! You look stunning

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  • MTB
    Master May 2017
    MTB ·
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    I see skin and muscle. Definitely not fat.

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  • LosForTheWin
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    Girl, you're beautiful! There is no fat, but I get where you're coming from. I was a college athlete and have a muscular back from years of lifting and I do not like the way it looks at all. Everyone else says I look great. We're our own worst critics!

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  • Erica
    Devoted October 2017
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    Had to really search here to see what you might be referring to. That is skin and muscle that wrinkles slightly when you bend. Too busy looking at your killer back muscles to notice that perfectly normal thing we all have.

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  • Jessi
    Savvy April 2018
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    Your going to be moving around so much that this angle won't even be a thing Also you look amazing so there's that

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  • Harleybeachbride
    Master May 2017
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    Oh come ON gurl, you know you look great!! It's nice to pop on and post for some compliments though to boost the ego so I'll join in....OMG YOU LOOK INCREDIBLE!!! Lol. ETA: and I mean that... you do so stop it! :+)

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  • FutureMrsPaldino
    Super October 2017
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    I do not see any back fat! I am completely jealous lol. You look great!

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  • Marilyn
    Devoted June 2017
    Marilyn ·
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    Girlfriend what you talking about back fat for!??

    You look great!!

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  • laura
    Expert June 2017
    laura ·
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    I feel so much better! I was not expecting such positive comments. Thank you all!!! You've made me feel one million times more comfortable you don't even know!

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  • T
    Super August 2017
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    Are you serious???

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  • Talullah
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    Talullah ·
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    Omg there is no back fat! Looks great!

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  • vanessa
    Expert November 2017
    vanessa ·
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    If you call that back fat omg what would u call my back ?!!!! Hehehe. You look great !!!! There's no back fat at all !!!!

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  • hannahdee
    Super June 2018
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    That would be your skin lol

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