My fiance has gained a little bit of weight and often comments on the fact that he thinks he's fat. I don't think that. but I'm not naive enough to say he hasn't gained weight (two different things). The issue at hand is that he sets goals for himself, and we'll set goals together, but then he only lasts a few days. We eat a healthy breakfast most mornings, and I meal prep lunches and dinners, so I AM doing my part to encourage healthier options. Occasionally we'll have a date night, but it seems like ever since the holidays, eating junk is more frequent than it used to be. However, I have no control over the snacks he buys some days on his way home, the junk food/catering he is subject to at his job. With the wedding in 2 months, he's putting a lot of pressure on himself to somehow lose 10-20 pounds, but isn't really doing much to make that happen. It's gotten to the point where he may not fit into the suit pants/jacket we bought for him (only a $100 setback, but since we're paying for the wedding ourselves, it's kind of a big deal to have to buy a completely new suit).
Has anyone else gone through this? I really don't see him as "fat" the way he sees himself, and I'm not at all disgusted by him like I've seen on some forums, but I don't really know what else to do to help encourage him to keep up his goals. I'm not his mother, and he's a grown man, so I know ultimately it's his decision.
