Help. a bridesmaid is causing issues

Is something going on with her personally or did something happen between you guys that you don't know of?

I mean, why is she being rude to you? It's hard to advise without more information. Could it be that you are being demanding or bridezilla-ish? If that's not the case, then you have every right to end unhealthy relationships. Sometimes friends grow apart, and maybe she isn't the type of friend you need anymore.

I'm not sure about the specifics, but usually kicking someone out isn't the best action if you don't want irreproachable damage. I suggest that, before doing that, have a frank conversation. Try to focus on the "I'm not sure what's going on. I'd still love for you to be a bridesmaid, but let me know if it's too much stress. Please let me know how to help." Make sure to also touch on how behavior "x,y, and z are hurtful."

I'm a chill bride I just go with the flow lol I think she is mad that I'm getting married and she isn't

No one can give you good advice with such a vague description. Why is she being rude? How is she being rude? Kicking someone out of your bridal party is typically a friendship ending move so I would tread lightly.

My best suggestion would be to have a talk with her and find out what's going on.

I'm starting to have problems with one of mine as well. I'm trying to get everyone together to meet and I've tried planning months in advance and she doesn't tell me until last minute that she can't make it. She's also trying to dictate everything about the look of the wedding party so that she is comfortable. I was hoping to have a chill wedding party but it's getting a little rough. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Hey Brouke! I'm sorry that you feel like you are having trouble with your BM. As the pps mentioned, it is a big decision to ask someone to leave your bridal party. This is obviously someone who you felt incredibly close to and supported by when you chose your bridal party. Did something happen in your relationship that changed?

I think the best thing to do would be to talk to her. If you feel like she is being rude, express that to her and see how you two can resolve whatever is going on.