Heirloom Wedding Band

If you're really worried about hurting her feelings, I'd suggest maybe wearing it on your right hand all the time. But if you're going to see her, then slip it onto your left hand. (assuming your left hand and right hand are the same size) It is a beautiful ring! But it definitely overpowers your engagement ring. How special to receive a family heirloom! And one that is so pretty. Congratulations.

I agree with Grace, I think it's completely fine and in no way disrespectful to her by wearing it on your right hand, but there's no harm in changing hands when you go to visit her, just to avoid any confusion or disappointment on her part!

I also agree with the other women. It's a beautiful ring and such an honor, but it does overpower your engagement ring. Wearing it on your right hand is not disrespectful and I have to believe your grandmother only wants you to be happy and would understand. You'll think of her every time you look at it or feel it on your finger wrapping it with her love!

I am in the minority that I think it looks gorgeous with your wedding band, but you should do whatever you are most comfortable with! She will understand.