Ashley
Beginner March 2020

Heels

Ashley, on August 21, 2019 at 4:25 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 27
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I’m am 4’9” and I feel that I need a very high heel. These are the heels I’m thinking of purchasing, I wear heels very often but not sure if I could go through the whole night with these on. I just want to look amazing the whole night.

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  • Mrs. Sarantos
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. Sarantos ·
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    These are really cute. Im 4’11” but I’m just going to be short. My ceremony heels are 3 inches and then I’m switching to sparkly sneakers. I don’t want to be miserable all night and not enjoy my reception. Everyone already knows I’m short lol
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Rockstar December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    Those ones are pretty, but they don't provide much support. I think it'll be totally fine to switch shoes for your reception!

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    Think really hard about this because your shoes affect your hem. If you swap your tall heels for flats for the reception you could trip on your skirt. Maybe try to find the most comfortable tall heels on earth? Or since no one can see under your dress you could swap for some ultra comfy platform sneakers. It sounds weird but it’s better than getting hurt on the dance floor!
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  • Amanda
    Savvy September 2019
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    I love them! I would say that if you can afford to buy them and try them out, I would. Maybe wear them on a date night and do a fair amount of walking (only if you’re okay with not returning them and then having to buy another pair). I would suggest not getting them if you plan to only wear them for the ceremony because then you’re dress would be dragging all throughout the night because it’s a big height different with the heel! Hope I could kinda help!
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  • Ashley
    Beginner March 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Very true. No secret with that. Lol
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  • Ashley
    Beginner March 2020
    Ashley ·
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    That’s a huge concern is my hem. I want the height but not sure I would be willing to wear them all night. I have a lot of thinking to do.
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  • Ashley
    Beginner March 2020
    Ashley ·
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    You know I did think of that. I could use this shoe another time even if it wasn’t on my wedding day, but order them just in case if I did decide to go with these.
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  • Laura
    Expert September 2019
    Laura ·
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    I'm only wearing heels for the ceremony and changing into some glitter Keds for the reception. I know I won't make it or be comfortable wearing heels all day! lol

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  • KaiJan33
    Dedicated July 2020
    KaiJan33 ·
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    Since I will be on a beach I'm opting for no heels and if I need shoes to get back and forth between areas, I will have these.
    I'm no expert, but if you aren't sure you can do the whole night, get a backup shoe of something that you will be able to wear!

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  • Kora
    Expert September 2020
    Kora ·
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    Lol I am 5'10 and looking for something that has a smaller heal but I do wear heals to work just like these! As they are very beautiful they do not have much support.. I would say buy them and wear them on a date night or look for a heal with a platform as those will give you more support! Good luck!!
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  • Ashley
    Beginner March 2020
    Ashley ·
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    So cute and such a good idea.
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  • Ashley
    Beginner March 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Thanks I’ll need it.
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  • Marcus & Marlisa
    Dedicated June 2020
    Marcus & Marlisa ·
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    I'm 4'11 and my fh is 6'2 so I'm also buying a taller heel to reach his face lol but I know I won't be able to keep them on all night so I am going to buy some flat shoes and bedazzle them so they are just as fabulous as my regular shoes.
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  • Jeanie
    Super February 2020
    Jeanie ·
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    You could try looking for something with a bit of a platform so even though you’ll still get the height, you won’t have that high of a heel all night. I would worry about switching to something flat or otherwise a significantly shorter height because you’ll end up tripping on your dress.
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  • G
    Savvy October 2021
    Gabby ·
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    You could always wear the heels for the ceremony and switch to some flats for the reception? If you are worried about the hem line maybe find some comfortable platform heels to change into later on in the night? They still give you the height, but tend to be more supportive and comfortable! Smiley smile

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  • Michelle
    Devoted October 2019
    Michelle ·
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    I am 4'9 as well and my Fh is 6ft tall, I am only wearing 3inch heels. Anything higher i think i would be uncomfortable in since i haven't worn high heels since my kids were born

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  • Kristin
    Devoted October 2020
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    I have tons of Sam Edelman heels for work and although they're great for a few hours, after awhile they do start to hurt. If you're up for wearing heels all night I would go for a wedge or block heel for more support. No one is going to see your shoes anyways

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  • Kristin
    Devoted October 2020
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    I'm 5'10 also and had intentions of buying a smaller heel but ultimately I like the look of taller heels more. I ended up getting these which are 4 in

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  • Kora
    Expert September 2020
    Kora ·
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    Those are cute! I also like the look of the longer heel as well but I'm thinking about these also because our wedding venue is not paved with cemet haha

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  • Kristin
    Devoted October 2020
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    Those look so comfy!

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