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Shan
Beginner April 2022

Heel no heels?

Shan, on September 9, 2021 at 3:07 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 39

I never wear heels. I am flats all the way, but would you, if you were me, wear heels for your wedding? Want to be comfortable and able to move around
I never wear heels. I am flats all the way, but would you, if you were me, wear heels for your wedding? Want to be comfortable and able to move around

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    I rarely wear heels myself. I did buy some and plan on wearing them but when we were doing our first look photo adventure, I wore wedding sneakers. By the time we got to the venue, I was too tired to change my shoes so sneakers it was lol
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  • N
    Expert June 2021
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    I feel you with wanting to be comfortable at your wedding. I only wore my heels for the ceremony and changed into my platform white sneakers for the reception. I made sure they were the same heel size so my dress wouldn’t drag. Here’s a pic of them. Don’t mind the scuffs this was taken after some heavy dancing lol.
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  • Ashleigh
    Beginner October 2021
    Ashleigh ·
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    I’m doing the exact same thing as you! I also agree it’ll be shoes I can wear after the wedding and always have a smile on my face from remembering the day when I wear them Smiley smile
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  • Katherine
    Expert October 2021
    Katherine ·
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    I personally can not wear heels unless they are very thick heels and not to tall due to bad feet. I'm not wearing heels at all. I bought kate spade glitter sneakers. It's not like anyone will actually see my shoes anyways. I'd say wear what makes you comfortable. It's a long day.
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  • CountryBride
    VIP April 2022
    CountryBride ·
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    I never wear heels
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  • Victoria
    Dedicated November 2022
    Victoria ·
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    I love heels but am all about comfort on my wedding day. So I ordered some Kate Spade wedding Keds and I am so excited to wear them! They’re white and sparkly with ribbon laces and have a wee bit of a platform (my fiancé is over a foot taller than me so a lil height help is needed). Maybe look into those!!
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  • Marie
    Savvy September 2021
    Marie ·
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    I'm wearing heels for the ceremony and flats for the reception.
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  • Heather
    Super November 2021
    Heather ·
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    If you don't wear heels that is totally fine! you can totally find some really cute flats to wear for your big day. Lulu's may have some cute ones, but just read the reviews first because some of their shoes fit weird lol. But if you want to add a little bit of height then wear wedge heels so it's like flat heels. That's what I am doing because I want to be comfortable, but still wanna add a little bit of height since I am 4' 11" and my FH is 6' 1" lol. I got mine from David's Bridal.

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  • Ellen
    Devoted October 2021
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    Wearing pretty flats I got from David’s bridal. Hubby is same height as me, so no heels. Plus I don’t wear heels anyway.
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  • Meshaun
    Beginner October 2021
    Meshaun ·
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    I wear heels allll the time however I find the ones with a platform in the front and a block much more comfortable then the others! I also say DO NOT GO TOO CHEAP or TOO EXPENSIVE! Neither of them matters when it comes to pain! It’s all in how they are made!
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  • R
    Savvy June 2022
    Rebecca ·
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    Its your wedding, so you do you. Nothing wrong with wearing flats for your wedding.

    Personally I like heels, so I'll be wearing heels.

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  • Ellen
    Devoted October 2021
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    These are goals. I LOVE THESE!!!
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  • Victoria
    Dedicated November 2022
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    I bought those too!! Aren’t they fantastic?!?
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  • A
    Beginner April 2022
    Ariya ·
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    I’m wearing wedge sneakers. I understand the wanting to be comfortable, so I found the next best thing. Next to of course, flats.

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  • Trissa
    Just Said Yes May 2022
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    I got 1 inch kitten heels since I always wear flats and recently healed from a broken ankle. They are short enough it diesnt sewm like heels but tall enough I don't have to hem my gown. If you dont like heels I'd say wear flats and maybe have a pair of heels for pictures if you really want the look but not the discomfort.
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  • Brittany
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    Found these on ETSY but I’m going to DIY!!!
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  • L
    Savvy November 2021
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    Tons of people wear flats! If you want to do heels, I would suggest a low block heel since they are easy to walk in. Also would suggest getting a non-expensive pair so you dont feel bad if you end up taking them off

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  • Tara
    VIP November 2016
    Tara ·
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    If you never wear heels, NO!!!! Your feet will hurt so much if you wear shoes you're not used to. there's so many really nice flats out there, I say go with what you're used to and comfortable in!

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    Devoted June 2023
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    I would wear heels for the ceremony and then change for the reception

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