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Katherine
Beginner February 2020

Heaters for Winter Wedding?

Katherine, on September 11, 2019 at 3:05 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 8

Hello, friends!


We're getting married February 22nd, 2020 in eastern Maine. We're super outdoorsy, so our ceremony will be outdoors at 3:00 p.m (the warmest part of the day). I have told everyone I know to wear winter coats, snow pants, long johns, boots, wool socks, hats, mittens, etc, to our ceremony and then they can change afterwords to attend our reception. This information is also on our website and will be included with our invitations. We've also told people that if they don't feel comfortable being outside in the Winter, they are more then welcome to stay inside and watch the ceremony from the window (which is about 1/4 of a mile away from the ceremony) and see us at the reception. There are no kids or babies invited, and only three older individuals attending.

All of this being said, people keep telling me (mostly my sister who lives in California) that I should rent heaters for the 20 minute or less ceremony. I feel like as long as everyone knows they need to layer up, why should I need to spend hundreds of dollars on heaters for twenty minutes? We're also giving out hand and foot warmers as well as hot cocoa and cider, and there are also fire pits right outside the Inn!

I will be the person with the least amount on, and I can suck it up. Am I just a hardcore Mainah, or do you guys think my point of view is legitimate? I also think people are really excited to go to an outdoor ceremony in the winter, because it really is a once in a lifetime experience!

Thank you!

The snow-loving bride

8 Comments

Latest activity by Cher Horowitz, on September 11, 2019 at 4:35 PM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    If it were me, I'd rent a couple heaters. I just think it's a nice gesture, and may make it more feasible for some guests to be outside in the middle of winter. My husband and I spend a ton of time outside in Colorado, we spend several weekends every winter camping, hunting, and fishing outside in frigid temperatures. But I feel like people are in a different mindset at weddings. We had a graduation party outside in May, and we had no idea if it would snow/rain/wind/sun/etc. and we rented 4 heat lamps. They came in handy at night, people were all around them and it was 50. Our main thought at our wedding was guest comfort, in every aspect, and I feel like that made people really happy & enjoy our wedding and stay the entire time.

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    I don't think it is reasonable to have an outdoor ceremony in the dead of winter when you live in a cold climate. Just because the ceremony itself may only be 20 minutes does not mean that is how long guests will be out there. Most guests arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony starts so they will be sitting out there for at least an hour. If you are not willing to take your guests' comfort in mind by having an indoor ceremony, then at the very least get the heaters. Otherwise, just elope in the outdoors if you love the outdoors more than your guests so much and have a reception later.

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  • Stephanie
    Savvy August 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Definitely get some heaters. I've been to a outdoor wedding during winter and I felt like I couldn't even focus on the ceremony because it was so cold! Ultimately up to you but I believe your guests will appreciate it.
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  • Mcskipper
    Rockstar July 2018
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    .....you should definitely rent heaters for an outdoor ceremony in upstate Maine in the middle of winter
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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I live in California and grew up in Texas so take my opinion with a grain of salt since I’m not used to cold temperatures. But I would be miserable during the wedding and would probably be huddled around the a heater rather than paying attention to your ceremony. I also would be frustrated that I would have to bundle up for the ceremony and then find some place to change and stash all my extra layers during the reception. I think at the absolute minimum you need heaters but I would really look at a private ceremony or having it indoors.
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  • Mcskipper
    Rockstar July 2018
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    I mean you’re talking about a place and season where it legitimately has the possibility to get “too cold to be outside” ...it’s also important to remember that while people are watching a ceremony they are sitting still— not moving around keeping the blood flowing. Heaters are completely necessary for this in my mind.
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  • idosoon
    Devoted February 2020
    idosoon ·
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    I think you're definitely just hard core.

    Think.. miserable,uncomfortable, coughing, sneezing, runny noses etc?

    Watching from the window is a fantastic alternative. Are you are ok with everyone staying in and you 2 being the only ones outside? If so then no heat (because most people will stay in and you don't mind anyway, save your $&dollarSmiley winking.

    If it'll ruin your day that no one is out with you two at the ceremony, DEFINITELY get heat, no question

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I live in the South, so as a guest I would really appreciate heaters. Definitely keep your guests' comfort at the front of your mind!

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