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Just Said Yes June 2018

Heat Wave Wedding

Lindsey, on June 13, 2018 at 4:24 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 21
So, my wedding is this Saturday. The weather forecast is saying it's going to be 90 degrees, hot & humid with a 20% chance of isolated thunderstorms. My wedding ceremony was originally planned to be outside with my reception venue as a back up in case of rain. I did not expect this heat since the month of June in the past has been a lot cooler (we're experiencing record breaking temperatures). My ceremony will be short and sweet, but I'm really nervous that it'll be too hot. I planned on having umbrellas for shade and ice cold water for people but I feel like it's not enough. An outside wedding has always been my dream but I don't want people complaining about the heat. Thoughts?

*Please go easy on me. I'm a delicate flower with three days to go and nothing's going right.* 😖

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Latest activity by Lindsey, on June 17, 2018 at 10:30 AM
  • Anne
    Master April 2017
    Anne ·
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    I would have it inside. I've been to a wedding ceremony that was about 90 degrees and it was uncomfortably hot (and the bride/groom/wedding party were dripping sweat and it was not good).

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  • Brianna
    VIP May 2018
    Brianna ·
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    If it were me, I would move the wedding indoors. Our wedding a couple of weeks ago was about that temperature, and I'm so glad the ceremony was inside.

    We went to a wedding earlier in May that was almost as hot as yours is forecasted to be, and the ceremony took place outdoors and it was miserable. I will never forget sitting there trying to fan myself and worrying about my dress showing sweat marks after sitting there.

    Inside may not be quite as pretty, but it will be way better for your guests and for you and your FH.

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  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    Honestly, you should have it inside. I've also been to a wedding in 90 degree weather and the bride was literally melting. Not to mention the guests who got there on time had to wait in the heat. It was horrible (they also had water and shade, it didn't help). I'm sorry you're having a hard couple days.

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    Move the wedding inside. The ceremony might be short, but your guests will arrive early, up to 30 minutes or so. Being outside, dressed up, for up to an hour will be miserable and sweaty. Your guests will be cool, dry and smell better if you have an inside ceremony.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Is the ceremony reception in a shaded area at all, or can it be adjusted to be around more trees/etc. for shade? How long of a ceremony will it be? 90 degrees in the direct sun may be pretty brutal, even with ice water and umbrellas. I would offer fans too, even if they are the cheap disposable ones. Sunscreen and bug spray might also be some good options depending on the region!

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  • C
    Super August 2017
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    I was supposed to have my ceremony outside but it had to be moved into the reception room because of rain. We had also agreed to move it inside if it was going to be too hot. I still wish we could have had it outside but our/our guests’ comfort was more important to us.
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  • C
    Super August 2017
    C ·
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    Forgot to say that I am 100% happy with our wedding day and still feel mushy thinking about it. All that really matters is that we’re married!
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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
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    Move it inside. Not only will your guests be uncomfortable but YOU will be too!

    You will be all dolled up in hair and makeup and you don't want to look like a mess walking back down the aisle. Plus, it could rain anyhow during your ceremony time.

    I'd probably plan to have it indoors, just to be prepared for it. You can always take pictures outside still but when its that hot and humid, umbrellas and water won't do the trick.

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  • S
    Savvy April 2019
    Sophia ·
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    I would do it inside and do some quick photos outside. Or if there is a spot that guest can relax in inside have them do that until 10 minutes before the ceremony starts and maybe cut it short if you can .
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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
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    I think you know the right answer to this. I'd be super disappointed if I couldn't go with my outdoor ceremony plan, but I'd put my guests' comfort above my vision if it really came to that. 90 degrees in dress clothes, even for 15-20 minutes, will be completely unbearable. And you'll be just as uncomfortable as they'll be. Think about your beautiful hair and makeup melting off you, photos not looking great because of yours and your FS/family/wedding party's discomfort, and endless sweating under layers and layers of tulle. No bueno. I know it's a big bummer, but I'd say move it inside. The good news is, at least you already have a backup plan in place, so you don't have to stress coming up with one at the last minute! Smiley smile

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  • Kaye
    VIP October 2018
    Kaye ·
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    I went to a wedding this weekend. It was in the mid 80s and we were all fighting for shade. Indoors might be the way to go and then pictures outside if you really want them.
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    Expert September 2018
    Brittany ·
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    I went to a July wedding that was 95 degrees and outside. It was only ten minute ceremony and moved inside for cocktail hour at the same location. She loves her photos and people sucked it up. It's your call, but everyone will be in the heat including you!

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  • Victoria
    VIP October 2018
    Victoria ·
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    I agree with Brittany. If your dream has always been to have an outside wedding, have it outside. Assuming your ceremony will be short people will be fine. It's June. People know it's hot out.
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  • OrangeCrush
    Super October 2017
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    Move it inside - you need to think of your guests comfort as well as your own!

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  • Daria
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    Daria ·
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    Yes, your guests will be so uncomfortable. Not to even mention you, and you're wearing a 10 pound dress! Think of your FH and GM (if any?) in suits or tux coats.

    Don't make everyone suffer for the sake of some photos.

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  • Mrs Abbey
    VIP July 2017
    Mrs Abbey ·
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    Our wedding day it was 98 in Missouri with horrible humidity. I’m so thankful we did an indoor wedding. We did our photos outdoors and it was miserable
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  • L
    Expert May 2018
    LIZ ·
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    What time of day is your wedding and what are the surroundings? We had ours 5/27 in Northern Minnesota where it should have been about 60°. Oh no, try 87°. Fortunately we had an intimate ceremony and we did pictures first (3:00-4:00) so the sun wasnt beating down on us. We were by a river, surrounded by trees and had a soft breeze.
    Go with your heart. If it's short, and the setting is right, go for it. Maybe offer to people that have issues with heat to remain inside, set up video and stream it....
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    Just Said Yes June 2018
    Lindsey ·
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    I will also add that I have spent $200 on reserving the park and chairs and will not get it back if I don't use them.

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
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    Unfortunately, that's the risk you run. $200 is not a reason to have your guests (and you!) suffering.

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  • Stephanie
    Expert October 2018
    Stephanie ·
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    I know you really want it outside. But man, this is a toughie. My in laws had their wedding in July and it was hotter than Hell. They were all so drunk because they were all so hot. They remember their wedding fondly, but will never forget how hot it was. You could be that couple. People pay all this money, for it to be beautiful and perfect, and then the weather naturally throws a wrench in their plans. Having a picture perfect wedding is easier said then done. I picked my venue solely on the fact that it would be 100% indoors, in October. We can do pictures inside or outside, it doesn't really matter to me. I have also been two weddings, where it POURED rain in October, one was a beautiful outdoor ceremony that had to be moved inside, the other was inside but getting in and out of the venue in the rain sucked.

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