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Super October 2020

Heartbreaking email from venue

Emma, on July 29, 2020 at 2:22 PM Posted in Planning 0 15
Heartbreaking email from venue 1

Disclaimer: yes I am all in my feels!

Email from our venue for our October wedding. I feel like I should just cancel all together. I feel like there’s no point in postponing because drs keep saying things aren’t going to be better next year. I keep saying that no matter what I’ll have my wedding (which is what I really want). I keep saying that it doesn’t matter if it’s 10 people or the full guest list. I just want to get married. But now I don’t even know. I know there’s still 2 months to go. I think I just need some encouragement.I didn’t add anything about have a virtual option because I don’t even know how to go about setting it up and I feel like no one would care about it.

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Latest activity by Margaret, on July 30, 2020 at 6:43 AM
  • Tara
    Devoted August 2020
    Tara ·
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    Covid bride here in the same boat for our 8/22 wedding. Masks required and all. Still moving forward. I am in all the feels also. I just keep repeating to myself that at the end of the day none of the requirements matter.
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    Emma ·
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    I think I’d be okay if she didn’t say “anticipating half capacity” it makes me feel like if our governor keeps extending phase 2 that’s it’ll be less then half capacity. I won’t be wearing a mask because of my asthma but I refuse to have my FH wear one during the ceremony. After that I wouldn’t care!
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  • Tara
    Devoted August 2020
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    I think the masks boil down to your state. In Ohio, it’s not required for those speaking during religious services .. with vows during a wedding, he would be exempt from wearing one. (In Ohio) Our venue is at half capacity, but we were lucky that we picked a larger venue than we needed to begin with. We were able to invite our full list and with declines we are exactly at 50% capacity.
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  • Angel
    Expert August 2020
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    That's exactly how I feel! About how there's no point in postponing since we don't really know if this will be better next year. Ugh, I'm so sorry to everyone who's going through this. We're also trying to make the decision to possibly scrap the entire plan of postponing and just doing something small. Our ceremony venue was going to let us go through with it, but only if we wore masks during the ceremony, which is absolutely a no from me. Our reception venue is shut down so we're out of options.

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    Emma ·
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    So are we! Our list is about 75 people under half capacity. As long as we don’t have to wear the mask for saying our vows I’d be fine!
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  • Tara
    Devoted August 2020
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    Yes! I would double check with your state mask mandate on that. I don’t think you’re expected too but who knows 🤷‍♀️ Worst case, stand 6 feet from the officiant lol
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    Emma ·
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    I looked it up and “giving a speech to a audience” is an exemption, so maybe that counts?!?
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  • Margaret
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    I'm not sure what state you're getting married in, but we have a DW in FL - Masks are mandatory in the Keys indoors and out... NOW, they do have a stipulation regarding weddings and the whole not eating /drinking... but I read that while it is mandatory, they will not be policing it. - So google those things and they'll show up in your feed eventually on their own... at least for me they did.

    I say go forward with your plans, it looks like from other posts even at your 75 count you should be OK.... So have faith, it stays that way, Masks suck and I don't want them, but worse would be not marrying the man I love on the day we planned.

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  • Tara
    Devoted August 2020
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    I would count it.
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    Very true! Right now our guest list is 125 ( we sent all our invites out with covid inserts) Honestly if we had to we could cut the list to 30. It would hurt me but to me marrying him with immediate family and our closest friends more important then to have everyone I want to be there, be there.
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    Emma ·
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    I just got an email back!
    We won’t have to wear them during our ceremony!
    They don’t anticipate going over half capacity so we are all good! Only thing different right now is mandatory mask!
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  • Tara
    Devoted August 2020
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    Woohoo! Congrats! I hope that helps ❤️
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    VIP September 2020
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    We are down to 80 guests who feel comfortable coming and I plan to wear a mask for myself at all times except during the ceremony/first dance/cake cutting. I will have guests wear masks.

    For the live stream, I actually asked my DJ and they are going to set this up for me. Maybe reach out to your vendors- DJ or photographer or videographer if you have one? I do think some people will watch-my closest friends and family who can't come will tune in I'm sure.

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  • Leanne
    Super September 2020
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    Oh honey it’s going to be okay! We postponed from April to September and now 36 days out have to cut our list to 50. But the show goes on. I can’t mentally take another postponement. This could be going on next year too, and sounds like you’ll regret not having your day. Just follow the guidelines and bend to the times. It’s ok. We are here for you. ❤️
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  • Margaret
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    I think if Covid has taught us anything, it's shown us what's really important; Family and being with the ones we love. Big parties and celebrations can and will happen again.

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