Head table question

Hi Mindy! Typically, the entire party does sit together; however, it is not a requirement. You are free to arrange your seating whichever way you please!

You don't need to seat the ring bearer and flower girl at the head table. They can sit with their parents with the other guests. It would be polite to also seat the SOs of the bridesmaids and groomsmen at the same table. If this is too many people for you, consider a sweetheart table and let the BMs and GM sit with their dates, family and friends at the standard guests tables. We did this and our BMs and GM loved it.

My daughter ended up with 13 people at her head table, with SO of bridesmaids/groomsmen. I don't think you would want more people than that. Seating them at regular tables allows them to converse better than the head table format.

I think it might be a little squished with 14 people plus dates at one table. I had a similar number of people and we had a sweetheart table, the flower girl and ring bearer sat with their parents, and the bridal party (3 ladies, 5 guys, plus ones/dates) were split between two round tables. This encouraged conversation between tables and didn't limit their conversations to just the people immediately to their right and left. Also the flower girl and ring bearer were supervised.

You could add him to your sweetheart table?

We had a large wedding party. I personally am not a fan of the head table. We did a sweetheart table and everyone else sat with their significant others.

Not the flower girl or ring bearer. If your anyone in your wedding party has dates, I'd let them sit with you. It's awkward to be seated at an area away from your girlfriend or spouse.

So I'm doing mine a little weird. I don't want to do a head table because there's just too many people, but I also don't really want to do a sweetheart table to seclude ourselves from everyone and I don't like being the center of attention lol.
What I'm doing is having me and my FH, with my parents and his parents. That's it.
You can do what you like, just thought I'd put my opinion in