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Melanie
Dedicated July 2017

Head Table and Dates??

Melanie, on May 3, 2017 at 4:35 PM Posted in Planning 0 16

So I have not been to many weddings, and the few that I have been to, the bridesmaids and groomsmen at the head table do not have dates sitting with them. What is the norm? I think I would like for my people to sit with their SO's because the SO's aren't going to know anyone else at the wedding. But that would make my head table huge! What is the normal way of doing this? My FH is the best man in 2 weddings this month and he insists that I will be sitting with him at those receptions. I am very skeptical because of what I have seen done at weddings in my area. Thoughts?

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Latest activity by FB99, on May 3, 2017 at 8:17 PM
  • Chip
    Master March 2018
    Chip ·
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    I'm in favor of the sweetheart table - just the bride and groom.

    Not a fan of the head table because of the reasons you mentioned - splits guests from SOs

    The head table with guests is actually called a kings table - not a fan either

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  • A
    Devoted December 2018
    Alexis ·
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    I'm doing a sweetheart table(just the bride and groom) it gives you a moment to yourselves during dinner. And then the bridal party will just be two designated tables at the front so they can sit with their dates. I know I've gone to weddings before and didn't know anyone but the bride and groom and my fiancé who was in the wedding; I felt very uncomfortable sitting at a table not knowing anyone so I'm not gonna make my bridal parties dates feel that way either.

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    It is SUPER rude to split up couples like this. We are doing a sweetheart table for exactly that reason. Our table will be located between two guest tables: one for the groomsmen and their dates and one for my side and their spouses.

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  • ShanynL
    VIP September 2017
    ShanynL ·
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    I'm doing a head-table, but none of my bridesmaids/groomsmen are dating or married to anyone.

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  • APZ
    VIP March 2017
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    We did a kings table with a family table on either side. We sat at a huge table with our bp and their dates/SO's down the center of the room and each of our families had a round table right next to us. It worked really well for us.. a sweetheart table would have looked funny with our venue setup

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  • Wanda
    Super February 2018
    Wanda ·
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    We have a very small wedding, in fact, no BP at all (2nd time around for both of us, only 50 or so guests) - we're having a sweetheart table only.

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  • Alexa
    Devoted July 2017
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    We are having a sweetheart table and then bridal party tables so the bridal party can sit with their significant others. But I do think traditionally with a head table it's just the bridal party

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  • Nicole
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    Nicole ·
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    All the weddings I have been to have had the wedding party at the head table and their dates assigned to a different table. I don't really want to have everyone watching me eat dinner. FH and I have talked about possibly skipping the head table. Depending on the size of the tables we will sit at a regular table with the MPH, her husband, BM, his wife and maybe 1 or 2 other couples. The rest of the bridal party will sit with their dates.

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
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    I don't like the idea of separating the WP from their SOs and families. We chose to do a sweetheart table and then sat our WP with their SOs and families at two tables near us.

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  • K
    Super March 2018
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    I will be seating my Bridesmaids and his Groomsmen with their significant others. I don't want their SO to feel alone/awkward if they don't know anyone else. I also do not like the idea of it and i think its a bit rude to do that. We are doing a sweetheart table.

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  • the Grooms
    Master May 2018
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    We are either doing a sweetheart table or a head table with us and our parents.

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  • ToBeMrsWatson
    Super August 2017
    ToBeMrsWatson ·
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    We are doing a sweetheart table and the WP will have a "Head Table" across from us with seats for them and thier +1's (if they have one).... the table holds 14....

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  • Amanda
    Super September 2017
    Amanda ·
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    We are doing a sweetheart table. Majority of our wedding party is married with kids, I don't want to split people up. I have been in weddings where they did a head table but at that time none of us had significant others or kids. As I have gotten older, most of the weddings that I have been to had a sweetheart table.

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  • Megan
    Devoted August 2018
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    Thinking of doing the sweetheart table. This way the wedding party can sit with their significant others.

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  • Jessica
    Expert June 2017
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    We are doing a sweetheart table so that the bridal party's SO's don't sit alone. 2 weddings my FH was in did the same thing and I'm so glad they did.

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  • franniloveshimdailey
    Savvy August 2019
    franniloveshimdailey ·
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    We are doing a head table, luckily only 2 people are married and their SOs know the people they'll be seated with.

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