Hi everyone,
I really need advice. I had 4 girls in my bridal party including a MOH. They were so excited and happy to accept. I asked them around August of last year. (2018) anyways I created a group chat with all the girls. We finally had our first dress shopping in October. During dress shopping I was trying on dresses and the girls were. The girls weee really into themselves and wasn’t paying attention which kind of hurt my feelings. They were not agreeing with any style or colors that I liked besides 2. I decided to avoid the wedding chat because it cause so much stress on me. I waited weeks to see if anyone would take initiative to ask how the planning is going, or my MOH wanted to ask what her roles were. They were then complaining and saying they are on a budget, which is fine I get it. The dresses I picked topped out at $190. I would ask questions and wouldn’t get answers from anyone, they would totally ignore me like ok? I understand that life happens and gets busy but I’ve waited several weeks & nothing. They’ve honestly made me feel like my wedding was just a chore wether then it being fun and supportive. I had to let the MOH step down as well as another BM. I don’t think the friendship happen again. I feel terrible for doing it but she was so demeaning to me , and talking behind my back to the other girls. I just don’t get how people can be so rotten. Now I am only down to 2
has anyone else had to deal with this?
advice, comments , thoughts ?
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