Having a lot of anxiety

I think this is TOTALLY NORMAL! At least, I hope it is because I feel the same!

I tend to have these thoughts/worries before I fall asleep, or when I wake up in the middle of the night. I guess our tired brains are not as logical like our daytime ones, because daytime me would be like "ok none of those things are an issue, we can solve those things - it will work out" haha!

To be honest I feel like we just have to ride it out until after the day, and remind ourselves that if we are legally tied to the men we intend to be by the end of our wedding days, then the rest is just the whipped cream and cherry on top of the sundae!

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Thank you so much! i love what you said the rest is just the cherry on top and I will remember that. The most important thing is I'm marrying the man I want for life, and even if I am exhausted, it rains, I fall, I will still be marrying him. wish you the best too!

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Thank you - hopefully we will both have the most magical days

This is totally normal! My wedding is in March and I feel my head spinning about it almost daily with anxiety.

I keep having weird dreams about bad things happening at my wedding.

This is totally normal I was having crazy dreams leading to the day of, I was worried that someone I knew was going to get into an accident, etc.. But come day of everything turned out PERFECT. I had a small and intimate wedding of 50 people total and it was just amazing I kept repeating in my head to just keep enjoying the moment because boy does the wedding day go by so fast!!
So, again it is totally normal. I just kept myself busy working on other things that needed to be done before the big day. And while I kept myself occupied I played a new show in the background to keep my mind off of those thoughts.

I think it’s normal to have anxiety and scary thoughts so close to wedding but something to remember is to take a deep breath and hope for the best! And if something does go wrong to also remember that you are surrounded by people who love you and will support and help in any way!

I’m still 9 months away and these EXACT thoughts have randomly popped into my head! My parents being today for some reason!!! It scared me!