Melanie
Just Said Yes April 2022

Having a lot of anxiety

Melanie, on November 28, 2021 at 7:20 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 8
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I feel anxious, the wedding is in April and its pretty much all planned so not about that. And we are only having like 30 people. but i keep having thoughts like what if something bad happens to my parents before that date, and they can't go, or what if I don't get any sleep the night before. Or even anxiety over minor things like what if I fall? its just annoying having these thoughts, like I know deep down it will probably all be fine. its also hard to wait for it because I'm so antsy and eager and excited for it, and to know that we made it and none of these bad things happened.

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Latest activity by Marie, on November 30, 2021 at 12:19 AM
  • Rosie
    Rockstar February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    I think this is TOTALLY NORMAL! At least, I hope it is because I feel the same!

    I tend to have these thoughts/worries before I fall asleep, or when I wake up in the middle of the night. I guess our tired brains are not as logical like our daytime ones, because daytime me would be like "ok none of those things are an issue, we can solve those things - it will work out" haha!

    To be honest I feel like we just have to ride it out until after the day, and remind ourselves that if we are legally tied to the men we intend to be by the end of our wedding days, then the rest is just the whipped cream and cherry on top of the sundae!

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  • Melanie
    Just Said Yes April 2022
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    Thank you so much! i love what you said the rest is just the cherry on top and I will remember that. The most important thing is I'm marrying the man I want for life, and even if I am exhausted, it rains, I fall, I will still be marrying him. Smiley heart Smiley heart wish you the best too!

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  • Rosie
    Rockstar February 2022
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    Thank you - hopefully we will both have the most magical days Smiley smile

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  • Melinda
    Devoted March 2022
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    This is totally normal! My wedding is in March and I feel my head spinning about it almost daily with anxiety.

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  • R
    Savvy March 2022
    Renee ·
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    I keep having weird dreams about bad things happening at my wedding.

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  • Heather
    Rockstar November 2021
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    This is totally normal Smiley smile I was having crazy dreams leading to the day of, I was worried that someone I knew was going to get into an accident, etc.. But come day of everything turned out PERFECT. I had a small and intimate wedding of 50 people total and it was just amazing Smiley smile I kept repeating in my head to just keep enjoying the moment because boy does the wedding day go by so fast!!
    So, again it is totally normal. I just kept myself busy working on other things that needed to be done before the big day. And while I kept myself occupied I played a new show in the background to keep my mind off of those thoughts.

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  • Jacey
    Savvy May 2023
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    I think it’s normal to have anxiety and scary thoughts so close to wedding but something to remember is to take a deep breath and hope for the best! And if something does go wrong to also remember that you are surrounded by people who love you and will support and help in any way!
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  • M
    Just Said Yes September 2022
    Marie ·
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    I’m still 9 months away and these EXACT thoughts have randomly popped into my head! My parents being today for some reason!!! It scared me!
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