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Beginner August 2018

Having a cocktail reception, worried about it being boring??

Danielle, on July 31, 2018 at 3:19 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 7

Hi! So, my fiance and I are getting married in a few weeks. We're getting married at the courthouse with 14 guests then we will treat them all to a nice dinner. The next day, which is a Saturday we rented out a cool bar in a fun neighborhood to host a cocktail reception with 65 guests. We made sure to let everyone know that we will not be providing dinner but will be covering beer& wine and have heavy apps throughout the night. There's obviously a bar so guests will be able to purchase any liquor if that's what they want.

We plan to do a toast about 45 min in and thank everyone for coming and open to floor for speeches, we weren't originally doing this but my sister is really excited about making a speech for us so we went ahead with it. I assume one or two other people will want to say something too so this will take up a small amount of time.

Other than that, we're not doing first dances, cake or really any traditional wedding stuff. There is an area of the bar that can be used for a dance floor, we didn't get a DJ but they have a good sound system and we have made a good play list for the night.

My concern is that people will be bored since it's not a typical wedding reception whatsoever.

Has anyone had or attended anything like this? Please share your experiences (good or bad!)


7 Comments

Latest activity by MrsMG, on August 1, 2018 at 1:43 AM
  • Randi
    Devoted August 2019
    Randi ·
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    I think that sounds like fun.
    You don't have to go all out to celebrate your big day. This is just a way for your family and friends to get together and celebrate with you.
    I wouldn't worry about it. I'm sure everyone will have fun mingling and talking.
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  • K
    Super September 2018
    Kate ·
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    I dont think that people will get bored. Theyre still getting food, alcohol, and they can dance. Sounds like a party to me lol
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  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    Sounds fun to me! People will mingle, catch up with each other, eat-drink-laugh, and share in your joy. You don't need a DJ or the usual reception stuff to have a great time. Relax and enjoy!

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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
    HayMrsO ·
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    I wouldn't spend the money on a DJ. If your friends are anything like ours, a little food + a lot of alcohol + music = a good time. We will make our own party!

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  • D
    Beginner August 2018
    Danielle ·
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    Thanks for the feedback everyone, I appreciate it! I think I'm just way overthinking it and needed some reassurance!

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  • BrandiWeds18
    VIP May 2019
    BrandiWeds18 ·
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    People should be having conversation and maybe even dancing. Doesnt have to be the typical reception. Sounds like normal social event with something to celebrate.

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  • MrsMG
    Just Said Yes August 2018
    MrsMG ·
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    This is literally exactly what my fiancé and I are doing in a few weeks and I was literally searching through this forum looking for a post just like this because I was worried about our reception being boring too. We're doing the same thing. Just a courthouse wedding with about 15 family members and friends on a Friday. We rented out a room at one of our favorite restaurants for a reception the next day and invited 60 people. We are having a plated dinner and there is a bar that they can buy drinks at throughout the night. We didn't hire a dj, we just will have a playlist and use the sound system that the restaurant has hooked up in that room. We'll leave it up to the guests whether they want to dance or not. I won't be dancing though lol. We might do speeches and we will cut our cake and everything but other than that, it'll be pretty low key. Honestly that's the way we want it, but I was worried what the guests will think. It's nice to see that a small simple reception isn't that rare of a concept.
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