Update for our 3/29 Wedding -
We talked to our venues yesterday, both ceremony and reception, and since our group was initially and still is under 20 people, they are good to go as planned. There was concern about the groups of 10, but until it's made a legal mandate, both venues want us to have as normal a day as we possibly can. We're getting married in 12 days, so needless we wanted as much info as possible.
They both did agree to no cancellation fees should that be the case that we have to do, and both agreed to work with us on whatever date moves we would need to make should it have to go that route.
Always trying to find the positive...sometimes you can only do the best that anyone else involved can do!