Have you ever immediately regretted asking someone for their email and address for invitations right after you did? Because, me too

Not sure what you are looking for. Your loved ones have the information you requested. Not everyone was taught or uses manners. Sometimes it’s an oversight in a text message but it’s not personal against you. They could have easily withheld the information if they didn’t want to be invited. Step back and see if there is a deeper issue you may be struggling with that was triggered by their actions, because they did nothing wrong and only you and fiancé will be as ecstatic as you are about your wedding.