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Just Said Yes October 2017

Have you been to weddings where the bridal party sits during the ceremony?

jessica, on August 23, 2017 at 8:44 PM

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I am a very non traditional bride, and the thought of having a big formal ceremony gives me anxiety. Long story short, I originally wanted no one at the altar besides me and my fiance, but I still wanted to give my best friend the chance to be my MOH because I knew it was important to her, and I...

I am a very non traditional bride, and the thought of having a big formal ceremony gives me anxiety. Long story short, I originally wanted no one at the altar besides me and my fiance, but I still wanted to give my best friend the chance to be my MOH because I knew it was important to her, and I wanted her by side. My fiance is very into tradition, and ended up asking not one, but two guys to be on his side... so we ended up agreeing to have them stand up there with us, despite the odd number (one on my side, two on his).

However, now I'm thinking about it and am going back on my decision, especially with the odd number. I'm wondering if it would be strange to have them all walk down the aisle then take a seat in the front row during the ceremony? I have seen a few weddings online do this, and loved the simplicity/intimacy of it. Have any of you seen this before?

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  • Maria
    VIP March 2016
    Maria ·
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    I'm not in America so here, pretty much every wedding I've been too and every time I've been bridesmaid everyone include the couple sat, the couple in the middle and the bridal party on either side in the front row, but they were catholic weddings. The three civil ceremonies I've been to including my own everyone also sat. We stood for the exchanging of rings and vows, and other important bits.

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  • lkg72
    Devoted July 2018
    lkg72 ·
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    My friend's wedding was in the middle of 4 concentric circles. The BP sat for the entire ceremony. Unconventional but it was very intimate. You got to see other guests reactions which was a nice touch.

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  • Alyssa B.
    Super April 2017
    Alyssa B. ·
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    Catholic weddings do this and have the BM and MO come up to sign the witness form.

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  • Constance
    VIP October 2017
    Constance ·
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    You're overthinking it by a lot. Just let them stand.

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  • T
    Super November 2019
    Tricia ·
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    Yeah I was a bridesmaid at my brother's wedding and we all walked down the aisle then sat down up front on reserved seats

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  • Katie
    Expert October 2018
    Katie ·
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    I was in one wedding where all 20 of us were sat in the front rows. It was in a church that was 2 1/2 hours long between the ceremony and the actual church part. I've been to two other church weddings, one there was no church included so everyone stood next to the bride and groom and everything was done in 30 minutes. Another one I went to they had the WP sitting up on the alter

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  • Christina
    Super June 2018
    Christina ·
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    I sat for my sisters wedding. She got married at a church and they had the wedding party in the first row. My other sister was the MOH, so once my sister walked down the aisle, she fluffed out her train, took her flowers and then sat in the row with us.

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  • MHM
    Dedicated July 2017
    MHM ·
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    I had an uneven number (3 BM's and 5 GM's) and they all sat during the ceremony in the front rows. We also had our guests remain seated the whole time because DH and I met in the middle of the aisle. We're both tiny people and I wanted us to have clear views of each other when I finally came out. I've also sat in every church wedding I've ever been in. You should be fine!

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  • Cassie
    Super April 2018
    Cassie ·
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    I was just a bridesmaid in one of my best friends wedding. she had two ceremonies the same day, one in the morning at a catholic church and then one in the afternoon outside at her venue and then the reception follows. for the catholic ceremony, everyone except the MOH and BM sat. then, for her more informal ceremony, we all stood.

    ps. she did two ceremonies since her now husband is catholic (but she is not) and she knew it was important to him, but she still wanted the non-religious ceremony too. it worked out beautifully!

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    Savvy September 2019
    Cheyenne ·
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    I was in a Catholic wedding where the entire wedding party stood with the bride and groom for a fee minutes until instructed to sit down. We stood after the kiss the followed them down the aisle.

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