Hardest Decision

I'm doing both girl and my husband and I got married 4 and a half years ago. I want the entire experience. We're treating this next year as if were engaged all over again.

We are eloping October 2nd and postponing until May.
Fingers crossed we get a better handle on this soon!

Oh and we’re going to have a ceremony (vow renewal) and reception.

I just did the same, we postponed our October to May of next year. We are thinking just getting married first. What exactly do people do with elopement? Thanks!

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Just an intimate ceremony with no guest usually but we are inviting 8 of our closest family members

We are doing small ceremony now to get married with about 30 people. Next year we are still having the ceremony again and a reception. We want to have our wedding party there with us and have all our friends and family see our vows that’s why we invited them in the first place. Our vows will be more of a renewal as our wedding next year with then be our 1 year anniversary.

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I see. So are these people meeting at the court house or do we serve dinner to them as well?

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We're meeting at a venue that host courthouse style ceremonies. Since it's just 8 people we'll be having serving dinner at his mom's house.

No, I plan on not having a reception at all.

Our August 16th wedding had to be postponed, and we're not allowed to choose a new date until mid-September which is part of the reason why we're still getting married on our original date! We will not have any family or friends there, just us, our officiant and MOH to be a witness & take pictures. We will still be holding the ceremony & reception we originally planned as soon as it's safe to do so!