Has anyone else done a handfasting ceremony? I would love to hear more details about how you personalized it or ways that you incorporated it into a traditional, non-pagan ceremony? No offense to anyone...I'm Christian, and just don't want to use pagan vows... however, I admire and respect pagan traditions and find them very spiritually meaningful. Would also love to see or hear about materials that you used or how you tied them. Thank you all and best wishes on your special day!