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I heard to start with a venue. Mine is at home, so I started looking into a photographer next because they book SO far out. Other than that, I have been thinking about themes, vibes, must-haves, and putting that into a vision board. Pinterest is the very best!!! Once you get an idea of what you want, then book all your vendors I hope this helps a little!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! 😊 With three months to go, it’s totally understandable to feel overwhelmed, but you can still plan a beautiful day. Start with your budget, guest list, and top priorities. For under 100 guests, consider smaller venues, restaurants, or community spaces to help keep costs down. Take it one step at a time, you’ve got this! 💍

Sometimes you may look for a community center, park, veterans lodge, or church. If the ceremony and reception are possible in one location that can be helpful. Also, a simple option for the reception is to have snack foods, desserts, and non-alcoholic drinks so there is some ways to greet the guests as a newly married couple. The setting does not have to be more formal if the focus is lies with inclusion of the number of guests rather than a fantasy venue. These details are mainly where the budget is tight and the planning time is limited.

Congratulations! With three months to go and a smaller budget, I’d start by figuring out your must haves first: venue, food, and what matters most to you both. A smaller guest list can actually help a lot.

Look into community halls, parks, local restaurants, or smaller venues that offer packages. Don’t be afraid to ask friends and family if they have skills or resources they’d be willing to contribute. Keep it simple and focus on making the day meaningful rather than trying to match a traditional wedding.

We are also getting married in October. Start with the venue. See what help(if any) that can give you. Some have wedding planners to assist. If not and you wind up doing it all your self, I recommend the following order. Church/Temple, ect., reception venue, select wedding party,photographer, DJ,invitations, dresses/suits, cake,flowers, rehearsal, honeymoon,bridal shower. You can do this.

First — take a breath. What you're feeling isn't a planning problem, it's an overload problem. Three months, under 100 guests, tight budget: those aren't impossible, but your brain is treating all of it as one giant emergency at once. That's why you feel at a loss. It's not that you can't do it. It's that you're trying to hold the whole thing in your head at the same time.

Here's the thing that changes everything: October 2026 is actually your advantage. You're not competing for peak-season vendors anymore. You're in a window where venues and caterers have gaps to fill and are often far more flexible on price than they'd be in June. Your constraints are tighter, but your leverage is better. Those two things usually balance out.

A few psychological shifts that will help more than any checklist:

1. Accept that "small and tight" means "intentional," not "less than." Under 100 people is a gift — you can actually talk to every single guest. Most brides with 250-person weddings never get that.

2. Stop planning the wedding. Plan the next 48 hours. Your brain can't process "the whole wedding." It can process "book a venue this week." Anxiety shrinks when tasks get smaller.

3. Decide your three non-negotiables first. Not ten. Three. Everything else becomes optional by default. This single move removes about 80% of the decision fatigue.

4. Give yourself permission to let people help. Tight budget + short timeline isn't a solo sport. That's not failure — that's logistics.

Where to actually start, in order:

• Venue (or a backyard/community hall — seriously underrated for tight budgets)

• Guest count locked, then invitations out immediately

• Officiant + photographer (the two things you can't DIY)

• Food — drop catering, food trucks, or a restaurant buyout beat traditional catering on cost every time

• Everything else after that

You're not behind. You're just at the loudest part. Start with one phone call today, and the fog will start to lift.

Three months is definitely enough time if you keep things simple. I’d start with the guest list, venue, and food, then work out the rest around your budget. For 100 guests, a smaller venue and simple DIY decorations can save quite a bit. Don’t feel like everything has to be elaborate to make the day special.