Hair style

Could you do something half-up/half down. Something keeps it out of your face but give you a that look.

My FH prefers my hair down and I usually try to respect that by keeping it down or maybe pulled back a bit in front with a small clip. However, for our wedding, it's all going up. My hair is waist length and thick and our ceremony is outside, in New Jersey, in July at noon. If I even do a half up half down, I will be doing more than "glistening" (his word for female sweating) and I'm sure I'll frizz like anything. I'd like to respect his desire for my hair to be down, but I know I'll be less crabby if my hair is up.

Regardless of what look he likes on you, he gets no say in how you wear your hair on your wedding day. Wear it the way YOU will be most comfortable and happy. He will think you look beautiful no matter what.

Did you FH see you after your trial?!
I ask because my FH loves my hair down too, but I knew in my dress and in the heat it would be better up! My FH had commented several times how he hopes I have my hair down, but I knew he’d find me pretty either way. He saw me after my trial and loved how my updo looked. He literally said “I’m so glad you’ll look like this on our wedding day”.
I say this because I really don’t think guys realize that wearing your hair up at your wedding is completely different than your everyday messy bun or pony tail! The right up do is stunning and more of a statement than hair down in my opinion!

View Quoted Comment No he hasn’t seen it. I tried explaining that to him lol I’m just gonna stick to my original plan he’ll still love me

My hair is the same kind as yours and I looked at the forecast which says it may rain so bump that...up it goes AND I don't want it in my food either. If I wear mine down...it would be thrown up in that sloppy bun with a scrunchie. Haha