Hey All,
I just need to vent so my fiance and I are both women so when it comes to our wedding day we are using the same makeup and hair people just for convenience. Our wedding is in my home state and not the state that we live or where my future in laws live so everyone needed to find lodging. My future in laws since they're coming in town for 4 days decided to get an Airbnb which is a great idea but didnt bother to run it by us about the location so we can offer some tips on what would be best for the wedding day. So the place they picked is about 30 min away which is fiscally nice I'm sure but logistically is tough for my significant other's family to be slightly further then I'd like..so now my FMIL wants my fiance to get her hair and makeup done at their house even though it would be an additional travel fee for both the hair and makeup people and would be challenging for our photographer since its just going to be her. I'm just frustrated bc they didnt run any of their plans by us and now want us to plan everything around them being at the house. The hotel we have for the night before the wedding is a suite and is 2 minutes from the venue, I mentioned that everyone is welcomed to come get ready at the hotel and that I can be in a separate room and we have a plan in place for it to work out. They just wont let it go and I'm frustrated bc I dont understand why it is so important for my fiance to get ready some place that is not efficient or cost effective. Its a month before the wedding and this is the last thing I want to stress about, Help!
