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Had Bach/bachelorette Party this past Saturday....little tmi but useful

CountryBride, on May 13, 2019 at 2:27 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 9
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My FH and I just had our Bach parties this Saturday....on the same day. If you get the option to do each others on the same day/weekend I would highly recommend it. If anyone is like me and over think and analyze its tough to do that when you are having your party which distracts from thinking about what he is doing.

We both went to strip clubs....mine was a male revue. I had a small group...just 3 of us. It was a very small intimate setting. About 5 other group of bachelorettes and their entourage. I was the first to be called to the "hot seat" only had 2 sips out of my drink so was soooooo not ready. But we had a great time and then we proceeded to go bar hoping in Philly and spent the night.

FH party wasn't starting til 1030pm. He was a little disappointed with the turn out. Had people cancel last minute so only had 11 guys. They got a VIP room at the strip club with food and open bar. He also was put in the hot seat.....apparently ALL NIGHT! LOL I was happy he went back to our house to sleep.

When we saw each other on Sunday we were telling each other about our nights. I'm sure this is probably not done....what happens at the party stays at the party!! I at first was glad we felt comfortable and open enough to share the events of the night....until he went into a little bit more detail with his. I got a little jealous....im sure stuff I was telling him he was getting jealous too. Apparently the girls took off his shirt at some point and at another point he was bent over the stage with his bare ass out and the girls proceeded to take turns spanking him.....that was a little shocking to me but I guess that is what happens. He also was practically on stage with the girls the whole time. The MC guy kept making him go back....from sitting in a chair, to bent over, to laying on a blanket on the floor. He also said he came home with some singles bc the singles his guys were stuffing in his clothes for the girls to get fell down into his boots....prob when his pants went down below the ass. He still doesn't know how the girls got his pants down in the back without loosening the belt or undoing the button/zipper.

So he had fun and I did as well. I am very happy that he was happy to see me and said he missed me. He was also complimenting me with some sweet talk....like my boobs were much bigger than any of the girls etc. He also couldn't wait to be intimate with me. If anyone has read any of my prior posts...we haven't been intimate in a little while due to stress of the wedding and just before the party (on Friday) we got into an argument and barley said 2 words to each other except for goodbye, have fun, be careful, I love you.

Well Sunday was a different story. After talking about our nights we got to be together. He also told me he waited for me to "get off" I had a hard time believing that but that was a nice thought bc he wanted to be with me. So needless to say the weekend started tense and bad with us fighting but it ended GREAT with us reaffirming our love and attraction to each other. Much better way to start the week of our wedding......and I don't have to be worried or jealous about the strip club anymore bc it already happened for both of us.

Less than 4 days left. I'm ready!!!!


Latest activity by WinesandWhiskey, on May 15, 2019 at 3:33 PM
  • Future Mrs. K
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    Glad you had a good experience and are going into your wedding reconnected!

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  • Cristy
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    That's awesome!!! I'm so happy that you were able to reconnect, both emotionally and physically. Great story. Smiley smile Congratulations!!

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  • Formerbride
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    I'm glad it worked out!
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  • LB
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    I'm glad you guys reconnected. I'm hoping you followed it up with a serious conversation about how he spoke to you before. It feels good to just sweep things under the rug, until they rear their ugly head again...

    Thinking of you
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  • Brooke
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    This is exactly why I don't want a bachelor/bachelorette party 😅😅😅
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  • Ali
    Devoted August 2019
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    Same I would cry if I heard that hahaha but I'm also insecure and overthink way to much lol
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  • Kristin
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    FH and I are both going to Vegas but I am going in June (I can't stand the thought of being out of town more than I already am that close to the wedding... what a friggin year!) and he is going in late September. I trust him 100% ( which is saying a lot considering my previous relationships) but I also know his friends... I lived with 1 for a year when we first met 8 years ago and none of them have grown up much. We just promised each other we would come back alive and that we wouldn't talk about what happened (at least not the "dirt") for 5 years. I figured at that point it'll be easier to see it as just a funny story vs. something to make either of us insecure. I am actually thinking about getting my girls and his guys together at that 5 year mark for a fun weekend away to go back and tell those stories Smiley smile

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  • Nicole
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    I'm so glad this is the outcome you had and you two are feeling even stronger and more connected. Congratulations on the upcoming big day. I'm sure this week will just fly by Smiley heart

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  • WinesandWhiskey
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    That's exciting! I'm so glad it worked out that way for you, and it sounds like a fun time. We are also doing our bach parties the same weekend in Vegas. We won't see each other until the last day, so hopefully we will have the same experience swapping stories. I am a little nervous letting him loose with the boys since I can get jealous, but have all my faith in him Smiley smile


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