My FH and I just had our Bach parties this Saturday....on the same day. If you get the option to do each others on the same day/weekend I would highly recommend it. If anyone is like me and over think and analyze its tough to do that when you are having your party which distracts from thinking about what he is doing.
We both went to strip clubs....mine was a male revue. I had a small group...just 3 of us. It was a very small intimate setting. About 5 other group of bachelorettes and their entourage. I was the first to be called to the "hot seat" only had 2 sips out of my drink so was soooooo not ready. But we had a great time and then we proceeded to go bar hoping in Philly and spent the night.
FH party wasn't starting til 1030pm. He was a little disappointed with the turn out. Had people cancel last minute so only had 11 guys. They got a VIP room at the strip club with food and open bar. He also was put in the hot seat.....apparently ALL NIGHT! LOL I was happy he went back to our house to sleep.
When we saw each other on Sunday we were telling each other about our nights. I'm sure this is probably not done....what happens at the party stays at the party!! I at first was glad we felt comfortable and open enough to share the events of the night....until he went into a little bit more detail with his. I got a little jealous....im sure stuff I was telling him he was getting jealous too. Apparently the girls took off his shirt at some point and at another point he was bent over the stage with his bare ass out and the girls proceeded to take turns spanking him.....that was a little shocking to me but I guess that is what happens. He also was practically on stage with the girls the whole time. The MC guy kept making him go back....from sitting in a chair, to bent over, to laying on a blanket on the floor. He also said he came home with some singles bc the singles his guys were stuffing in his clothes for the girls to get fell down into his boots....prob when his pants went down below the ass. He still doesn't know how the girls got his pants down in the back without loosening the belt or undoing the button/zipper.
So he had fun and I did as well. I am very happy that he was happy to see me and said he missed me. He was also complimenting me with some sweet talk....like my boobs were much bigger than any of the girls etc. He also couldn't wait to be intimate with me. If anyone has read any of my prior posts...we haven't been intimate in a little while due to stress of the wedding and just before the party (on Friday) we got into an argument and barley said 2 words to each other except for goodbye, have fun, be careful, I love you.
Well Sunday was a different story. After talking about our nights we got to be together. He also told me he waited for me to "get off" I had a hard time believing that but that was a nice thought bc he wanted to be with me. So needless to say the weekend started tense and bad with us fighting but it ended GREAT with us reaffirming our love and attraction to each other. Much better way to start the week of our wedding......and I don't have to be worried or jealous about the strip club anymore bc it already happened for both of us.
Less than 4 days left. I'm ready!!!!