Guys at your bridal shower?

Of your FH isn't attending, it's sort of wierd. We're doing a joint shower for that reason

I don't see why not, but if it makes you or your FH uncomfortable for some reason, that's another matter.

I think if you have guys come you can frame it less like a traditional bridal shower, and more like an engagement celebration? Or if the guys you mean are family members, I think that's fine. But if you're inviting guy friends then it seems more like a party than a shower. Does that make sense?

I've never met a man who would be interested in sitting around watching a bride open gifts with a bunch of women

It's two guys they are both gay (i dunno if that matters) my FH doesn't mind

We did a "wedding shower" because my FH actually loves to be involved and know what's going on.. Maybe he's a weirdo. But no, most men don't want to be drug along with their wives to watch someone open five hundred and seventy-two toasters and coo over oven mitts.. but if you don't want it co-ed, then there's nothing wrong with that, if you do, nothing wrong with that either!

Oh ok. I told my husband I got a baby shower invite in the mail the other day and he said, "Thank god I don't have to go to those." lol

We had jack and Jill shower it was great all his friends from far away came as a suprise. So fun and it was special for him

If we do a shower it'll be a coed wedding shower.