Here's the deal. We have 117 guests attending our wedding (the church ceremony location is three miles from the hotel where the reception will be) in DC in 15 days. We have 50 guests staying at the hotel, 10 guests are local, and the other 60 guests are staying at other hotels or with friends/family in the area. FH and I chose the reception location because of its proximity to the church and didn't plan on providing guest transportation. His parents insist on paying for a 55-person bus to get hotel guests to the ceremony and back. Our concerns are 1) it's rude to have transportation for hotel guests and not other guests - especially when everyone has to go to the same place after the ceremony, 2) we didn't plan to provide transportation when we sent invitations and have no idea how many would use it, and 3) if we agree and get a bus now it feels a little half-assed. Our other concern is that it could be challenging for 117-ish people to get cabs after the ceremony since everyone would be in the same place - granted guests have an hour and a half between the ceremony and reception but still. What do you think? Thoughts, opinions and advice are appreciated!