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AlmostMrsJenkins
Savvy September 2017

Guest sitting at table during ceremony?

AlmostMrsJenkins, on March 8, 2017 at 8:27 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 13

We really want to have the ceremony and reception at the same place. We found a venue we love for the reception and we like to have the ceremony there too. We were thinking about having everyone sit at the table for the ceremony, has anyone else done this? Did it work out well? Or is it kinda tacky?

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Latest activity by 24kMagicWed, on March 8, 2017 at 11:29 PM
  • Rachel DellaPorte
    Rachel DellaPorte ·
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    Wait, didn't I just answer this question? Are there two brides with exactly the same question?

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  • WWModTeam
    WeddingWire Administrator December 2016
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    Hi April, it would be great if you could set an avatar photo. You’ll get more replies on your threads and it’ll help the community recognize you when you post. This can be done from the desktop version of the site, or you can email a picture to community@weddingwire.com and someone will set it for you.

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  • FinallyMrsFlax
    Super August 2017
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    I have been a guest to a wedding where this occurred. I will say that I had a hard time seeing what was going on at times, but it worked out well overall. This was also a smaller gathering which seemed to make it a little easier. I'm not sure if it would work out as well with a large group.

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  • Elizabeth
    Master December 2016
    Elizabeth ·
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    Do we really need two threads about this on the first page?

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    This is exactly the same question posted by Ashley, which is still current. I answered that.

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    Oh, and Melissa -- I'm with you. Lately, I've been shocked by the level of talking that goes on during a processional.

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  • JustDorrie
    Devoted June 2017
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    Hi, I'm new to the site. I've commented a few times and posted the other day. I am getting married in June and we are having the ceremony at the same place. We thought of having everyone sitting but I'm sure 1 will stand, then 2 more then everyone will be. I figure they can do what's comfortable.

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  • Colleen
    Dedicated June 2017
    Colleen ·
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    My ceremony and reception are in the same room, in the same venue. The room will be set up as a ballroom reception venue for the entire evening.

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  • J
    Expert May 2018
    Jenelle ·
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    I am going with this setup as well.

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  • Holly
    VIP June 2018
    Holly ·
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    I'm not a big fan of this idea. I think it would be harder for people to see and too tempting for people to talk

    My ceremony and reception will be in the same room. During cocktail hour, the guests will be outside eating and drinking while we flip the room. Eta: the tables will be set up ahead of time on the side of the room. We just have to move the chairs. Worst case (inclement weather) , we move the chairs while the guests are getting refreshments.

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  • Future Mrs.Murdock
    Savvy August 2018
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    It works!! Just went to a wedding this last weekend that did this. Thought it was diff. Had a little trouble seeing. We were clear in the back corner. But i liked it overall we didnt have to go anywhere right after and that was nice

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  • LookUpTazGully
    Expert May 2017
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    I attended a wedding where this happened. It worked because it was relatively small (maybe 100 people), but some people had to turn around to see. It was a more casual atmosphere and there was some chatting that occurred during the ceremony - hushed tones, of course. The parents and grandparents of the bride and groom sat in what would have traditionally been the "front row" rather than at a table.

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  • 24kMagicWed
    VIP May 2017
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    I've been to a wedding like this and people talked the whole time. It was sad!

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