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Erin, on September 18, 2019 at 7:06 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11
How do some of you invite your old friends and seat them with others if they don't know anyone?

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Latest activity by Laura, on September 20, 2019 at 10:34 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Give them a plus one and seat them wherever they fit in.
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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
    Sara ·
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    Agreed - letting them bring someone familiar is key, and then just try to put them with people you think they'd get along with. For example, I have a friend from high school who won't know anyone other than me and my parents, so I'm sitting her and her husband with a few other couples (2 married, 1 just dating) who are close to them in age and should get along well with them.

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    I sat people that had something in common together.

    Either I worked or went to school with them or they have the same employee now.

    FH’s guest’s are from his hometown, current employer, or ⛪️ and will be seated accordingly.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    My Mom’s First Cousins (that I invited) are at one table. Her friends got mixed into the 3 Round tables since the RSVP returns were reduced enough to take away a table.
    FH’s parents and their friends are mixed into the 3 Round tables as well.

    Everyone will have someone to talk to.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    I agree with a previous comment about giving them plus ones or inviting their spouses along with them

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    You just kind of have to do so aha. There's a lot of tables where not everyone is going to know one another and that's just how it is unfortunately.
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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    I invited them with a guest, and then fit them in at a table where there was someone they might have something in common with so they might find things to talk about. I also considered personalities a bit, and tried to place people that wouldn’t know any others with my more chatty, outgoing friends
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I'd just seat them with people you think they would get along with!

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    We're not doing assigned seating so they don't have to sit with strangers. I always hated that at weddings I went to. I hate having to make small talk with people i've never met

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  • Erin
    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Erin ·
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    I agree, so how would you do your seating if they are round tables?
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    They are round tables. I need to go to the venue in the next week and look at them to see how big they are and how many chairs fit at each table. We'd planned a sweetheart table, but still deciding on that one

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