I’m planning my wedding and my fiancé and I have pretty much finalized our guest list. However, my parents and his are not pleased at the fact that we didn’t add the parents of some of our friends to the guest list. These parents are people that we have also grown up with due to long friendships, but we ourselves wouldn’t put them as a higher priority due to the fact that there are dozens of friends and family that come before them. Of course we would have love to add them to the list if we could but we literally have no room to add them due to extra costs.
My fiancé and I are the first people in both of our families to actually plan a wedding since both of our families are only used to going to the courthouse. We’re also paying for this wedding for ourselves with no help, which neither of us are complaining about since we know that both of our families don’t have rich backgrounds and we understand.
However, it is a little bit stressful and annoying that we’re being criticized over this situation because they’re not factoring in the cost of adding extra people to the guest list. It feels like every time we try to tell them about the costs, they tell us that we’re spending too much anyway and advise for us to have a courthouse ceremony like the rest of our family. Neither of us have anything about courthouse ceremonies, but we both want a wedding since we’re in the position to afford and plan for one.
Any solutions?
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