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MIWM
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MIWM, on May 8, 2019 at 2:01 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 30

So long story short my fiancé's friends girlfriend is a covert narcissist. In the beginning she hid who she really was. She seemed like a decent person than I started noticing strange behavior right after I got engaged. She would give me dirty looks when people would tell me my ring was beautiful...

So long story short my fiancé's friends girlfriend is a covert narcissist. In the beginning she hid who she really was. She seemed like a decent person than I started noticing strange behavior right after I got engaged. She would give me dirty looks when people would tell me my ring was beautiful and she even started wearing random ring on her ring finger pretending to be engaged so she would get attention. Most recently people have came forward and said she has been making rude comments about my wedding plans and at my bridal shower she was telling my guest that I knew about the shower and that I was not surprised because it looked like a had a brand new dress on. The week prior she came out with 2 of my friends and randomly asked for 1 of my friends phone numbers who she just met and doesn't even know her and has been creepily texting her non-stop. And don't even get me started with the backhanded compliments. It's starting to get uncomfortable and I no longer her want to be around her. it's pretty clear she is jealous and secretly envious me. I do not want her at my wedding but I also do not want to hurt my fiancé's friends feelings because they are close. Do I just take one for the team and allow her to come? or do I put my foot down and uninvite her? desperately seeking advice.

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  • Genevieve
    Dedicated March 2020
    Genevieve ·
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    Yea, but she'll be surrounded by so many who love her 😊
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  • Ebony
    Savvy August 2019
    Ebony ·
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    Dont uninvite her instead cuss her ass out like a real tongue whipping and you will feel so much better even if she still show up you can look at her and smile that cool you know better smile right at her and enjoy your wedding then cut her off the day after

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  • Lauren
    Savvy October 2019
    Lauren ·
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    Nobody is powerful enough to steal your joy. It you feed this issue it will grow. Starve it so it dies. Don’t engage with her or talk about her to people and her influence with you will minimize. If you have to talk to her socially be civil. Treat her how’d you’d treat a stranger’s child- civil but basically ignore!
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  • MIWM
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    MIWM ·
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    Ebony trust me I have been thinking about cussing her out and letting her know lol

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  • MIWM
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    MIWM ·
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    Thanks Lauren! I am going to ignore her and act like she does not exist.

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  • MIWM
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    MIWM ·
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    Update: This women has resulted to stalking and watching my every move and also has been non stop gossiping about me. I have been doing my best just to ignore her but this is very creepy and uncomfortable .

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  • S
    Devoted September 2019
    Sara ·
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    Have you brought this behavior up with your FH? It's ultimately his friend who needs to rein in his GF/fiancee.

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  • MIWM
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    MIWM ·
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    Yes I have spoken with my fiancé about his friends girlfriends behavior and he also spoke with his friend about her behavior. His friend said he does not know what do about her.

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  • S
    Devoted September 2019
    Sara ·
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    I think, with her recent behavior, you run the risk of her coming whether she gets invited or not and that's some scary stuff right there.

    This is such a hard situation!

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  • MIWM
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    MIWM ·
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    I just continue to ignore her. Hopefully she will get the hint. I never in my life had to experience something this crazy.

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