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Nicole
Super August 2020

Guest limit- what do i do

Nicole, on March 21, 2021 at 2:25 AM Posted in Planning 0 10
My wedding is on July 30th. The church we’re getting married at is currently saying the guest limit is 140, but our reception venue is saying they expect to be at full capacity at that time and to invite everyone. I’m planning on ordering invitations and sending them out beginning of May. But idk how many to order and I don’t want to end up having to disinvite anyone in case there is a limit. What would you do?

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Latest activity by Heather, on March 23, 2021 at 3:58 PM
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    Liz ·
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    If it were me, I’d order enough invitations to be able to invite everyone, but I’d only send them to the number of people I was certain I could accommodate at the point I was mailing them - so, whatever the capacity rules are at the beginning of May / what the church is saying about how many are allowed.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I would invite 140 people or less.
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  • Katie
    VIP August 2020
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    Hi Nicole, girl I feel your pain. As optimistic as your reception venue is, I fear they will lead you down a false sense of optimism (as did my venue last summer). If I were in your shoes, stick to the 140 church limit.
    Last summer, my venue was overly optimistic telling us we could have 250 not including vendors. I told my then fiancé as much as that is an answer to our prayers, I think the venue’s hope isn’t accurate. It’s a long story, but left my now husband and I scrambling even up to a week before our wedding. I wouldn’t wish what we went through on any engaged couple. It’s been my experience most venues don’t have much sympathy if you have to uninvite guests or scramble. I would hate to see that happen to you and your fiancé.
    I’m sorry as I understand it’s not what any couple wants to hear, but hope this helps in your decision and spares you some of the stress in the long run ❤️❤️❤️
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    You have 2 options: if you decide to keep the chuch venue, do not invite more than 140 they allow to both ceremony and reception. Or if you choose to take advantage of the full capacity at reception venue, move the ceremony to the reception venue. Whoever is invited to ceremony needs to be invited to reception and vice versa.

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    I'd stick with the 140 to be safe
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  • Liz
    Devoted June 2021
    Liz ·
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    Their may be people who wouldn’t mind skipping the church ceremony and just celebrating with you at the reception. Can you do two versions of your invite and send separate ones to some. Just a thought.
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I’d stick with the 140 max.
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    Lady ·
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    Stick with 140.

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  • Vicky
    VIP January 2020
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    If your wedding isn't until July 30, I'd hold off on sending invitations until the end of May, not the beginning; maybe you'll have more information/upated information about capacity by then.

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  • Heather
    Super November 2021
    Heather ·
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    As much as you would love to invite more, I would say stick with the 140 to be safe! Smiley smile

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