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Kristina
Just Said Yes December 2017

Guest dismissal and bar announcement

Kristina, on November 5, 2017 at 7:08 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 26

Our ceremony and reception are at the same location. However, we have to use the same room for both events, so there will be a room flip. During that room flip we will have a cocktail hour with a flipbook booth, snacks, and a bar open in the other rooms.

How and who should we have to announce all of that to the guests before they leave the ceremony?

Also, we chose to have a consumption to cash bar. How should we word this to the guests without giving too many details?

26 Comments

Latest activity by Tanya , on November 15, 2017 at 2:27 PM
  • Linda
    Savvy May 2018
    Linda ·
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    I don't know about the bar, but our venue uses the same location for the ceremony and reception as well. For us, the DJ will be making the announcement that everyone will go to the front of the venue for a group picture. With all those people it usually takes a while, giving the staff time to reset the location.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    Your officiant can make the dismissal announcement to the guests.

    Reconsider the cash bar. There's no nice way to say "we're too cheap to pay for your alcohol so halfway through the night you're on your own".

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    If you can't afford an open bar the entire evening, offer only beer and wine all evening - for free of course. A signature drink would be a nice, additional touch.

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  • Brielle
    Expert November 2018
    Brielle ·
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    Don't do a cash bar.

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  • M
    Savvy January 2018
    Mrs. M ·
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    I went to a wedding like that and the invite I think said open bar til whatever time. It was open for two hours only.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Don't do a cash bar; it's hideously rude and confusing to the guests and the bartenders hate it. Just do wine and beer for the evening. You're not going to find people drinking a ton after cocktail hour and the beginning of dinner.

    Have your officiant make an announcement for everyone to gather for a group photo and enlist a couple of your friends to help direct them. That'll keep them busy for enough time to flip the room.

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  • Akelah
    Savvy May 2018
    Akelah ·
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    Please don't do a consumption to cash bar. I was at a wedding like that and we were disappointed to find out that the free drinks we were getting all night were now $10 each. Just do beer and wine it's more cost effective and better than nothing.

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  • Kourtney
    Beginner December 2017
    Kourtney ·
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    When I read "cash bar"


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  • Audrey
    Devoted October 2018
    Audrey ·
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    There's nothing wrong with a cash bar. It's not being to cheap, it's saving thousands.

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  • Kourtney
    Beginner December 2017
    Kourtney ·
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    @Audrey, it's saving thousands by being cheap. And there are MANY things wrong with it

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
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    It is being cheap and your guests will remember. I myself would take money out of the card to pay for the drinks. If you can't afford the bar, you've invited too many guests.

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  • Kourtney
    Beginner December 2017
    Kourtney ·
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    @Going to the chapel, I'm totally doing that at the next cash bar wedding I go to. I love it lol

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  • Kiwibride
    Super November 2018
    Kiwibride ·
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    After the ceremony, have your MC announce for everyone to go outside for a group photo. They can close the doors to start flipping the room while you're out and then everyone just goes into the cocktail area afterwards.

    No cash bar.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
    Dreamer ·
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    So how did Audrey get 4 stars/here awhile, with making comments like that one?

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    .

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Audrey, it's rude, cheap and everything is wrong with it.

    Wanna save thousands?

    Cut the list. You'd be simply amazed how well that works.

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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
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    $15.50 per dirnk! Hell to the no. We'd leave, pick some liquor up on the way home for less and snuggle while watching a movie.

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  • HowCo Industries
    VIP September 2018
    HowCo Industries ·
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    Have your officiant announce the room change. Rely on a couple of gossipy relatives and the bartender warn that the bar is changing over.

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  • Emily
    Master May 2014
    Emily ·
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    Your officiant or DJ can make the announcements.

    No Audrey, there is a lot wrong with a cash bar. Guests should not have to pay for anything at an event you're hosting. And it isn't "saving thousands" - you are just shifting the cost of YOUR wedding onto guests. Again, this is wrong.

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  • Millie
    Expert April 2018
    Millie ·
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    We are doing a room flip and our wedding planner or officiant will make the announcement.

    Not sure about the drink announcements. We are having open bar. I guess the bar tenders can inform them or you can have a sign at the bar.

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