I'm only 50 days from our wedding day (can't believe it's so close - eek!) ! My FH asked all of his groomsmen in January to make sure they go to Men's Wearhouse to get their measurement and to get the tuxes ordered. Two of our groomsmen still haven't gotten theirs done and are now barely responding. One groomsmen said he was waiting to see if his gf's dad had a black tux before he rented one. We tried explaining that they all need to match for the ceremony and are currently waiting for his response.
I'm super worried about him not getting it done or even showing up for the rehearsal and/or wedding due to his lack of communication. Also, him and the other groomsmen have been fairly difficult with everything. I feel so bad for my FH because they have all been really close and good friends for years. However, he's only seen them once this past year, and it was only cause I begged them to come to his surprise 30th birthday party in August. He tried asking them to be groomsmen for 2 months and they kept cancelling so he ended up having to ask on the phone. He even told me this past week that he has other friends with that he is closer with now that are unfortunately not in our wedding.
I know he's really hurt by all of this. Has anyone had a similar experience? What do you think is the best way to move forward?
-Stressed out bride