Groomsmen colors? My dress is red

I definitely wouldn’t say have the groomsmen in red. Especially since that’s what you’re wearing. If your fiancé is opposed to them wearing black with red accent, I’d say maybe do a dark grey or even a cream tux with red accent. Your dress is really gorgeous btw! I like it!

View Quoted Comment Ohhhh I like the crème idea!!! And thank you so much! My mother isn’t a fan of it, she wanted the traditional white for me.

I think any color tux besides black or white will be hard to come by. And I do agree that if the bride is in a red dress, you don't want the wedding party also in red since that will distract from you 🙂 It could also come out very harsh in photos. I say just go with classic black, it will give them the widest selection.

View Quoted Comment Really??? It’s stunning! Maybe once she sees you in it she’ll have a change of heart.

View Quoted Comment That’s what I was trying to explain to my fiancé, he goes but they will be standing next to me not you haha I said yeah but the photos. He wants to be involved with planning which is fine I just don’t want it to be too much next to me if that makes sense

I think the groomsmen should wear gold accents so they match the bridesmaids, and your husband will have red accents to match you.

Here is my two cents, I think black red and gold for the groomsmen. You don't want too much red. Maybe gold/black blazer or you could have gold vest with black blazer.

I love the non-traditional dress, it is amazing and will be beautiful.

You could have the groomsmen in black with gold accents to match your wedding party.

I agree with Grace and Willow where you and your FS match, and wedding party coordinate with each other. You in red, your husband in white dinner jacket, black lapel, black tuxedo pants, red/black pocket square and/or bout. Bridesmaids in gold with similar flowers as your bouquet, groomsmen in black tuxes/ white shirt, or black tux, black shirt with gold trim pocket square or bout with gold trim. Or all male bouts match with different color pocket squares.

View Quoted Comment Oh yes! That’s a awesome idea!! I didn’t even think of that

View Quoted Comment Yes those are perfect ideas! Thank you soooo much!

A white/ivory dinner jacket with red accessories is a very classic choice (though a white lapel is much more traditional than a black lapel). But this look is pretty classic too and you can get it at Men's Wearhouse.

https://www.menswearhouse.com/p/egara-slim-fit-wider-shawl-lapel-dinner-jacket-red-14RR14RT11

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much!!

Can I just say your dress is a knockout! Stunning.

View Quoted Comment Thank you!!!