Hi folks! When we began our planning for the guy's clothing (both groom and groomsmen) my FH picked out a smart looking tux and said that was his choice. A week later, he said he would probably be happier in just a black suit, but he wasn't sure where to get one. Last night, he asked if the guys can just wear black jeans with black button down shirts?
I have asked my bridesmaids to pick out a dressy dress or cocktail dress in either black or purple, but something they would like to wear again. My dress is a formal from David's Bridal. Am I being unreasonable to want the guys as dressed up as the girls? Won't the guys look silly being underdressed? Or should I let him make the decision? My brother (one of the groomsmen) said he would wear cargo shorts and flip-flops if that's what *I* wanted. I'm so confused! I don't want to be a bridezilla!
Help please?