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Just Said Yes October 2017

Groom nervous about pictures.

Charity, on August 4, 2017 at 1:29 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

My fiancé is always nervous and doesn't like his picture taken. He is becoming especially nervous about the wedding day photos. I usually try making him laugh to get him to smile, otherwise is looks stone faced in pictures. Any suggestions on helping him relax and feel more comfortable having his picture taken?

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Latest activity by Kathleen Smith, on August 4, 2017 at 1:56 PM
  • Hannah
    Super August 2017
    Hannah ·
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    Maybe Have the photographer give you a little time when you first see each other or first start pictures of the two of you to just be together and talk and hug or whatever you do before he/she starts having you do poses and whatnot. That way you can chat and make him laugh and hopefully he will loosen up a bit.

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  • KDoubleU
    VIP October 2017
    KDoubleU ·
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    A shot and talk to your photographer. I know your date is coming up, did you take engagement pictures with this photographer? I would at least meet with them beforehand so your FH will be more comfortable.

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  • Audrey
    Expert September 2017
    Audrey ·
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    I second liquor. I think our photographer is going to keep talking to us and asking us questions to get our natural reactions to things, as my FH is not a huge photo person.

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  • bobbileighba
    Expert June 2018
    bobbileighba ·
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    Engagement pictures for sure help with this and a couple of drinks will help as well. The more comfortable and friendly he is with the photog, the easier it will be.

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  • Amanda
    Super October 2017
    Amanda ·
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    I'm not sure on advice for your FH, but you could ask your photographer for more "candid" style shots and photos where he isn't looking at the photographer (looking at you, or off into the distance, etc.) If FH isn't paying attention to the camera, he might feel more at ease. Good luck!

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  • Keisha
    Master September 2018
    Keisha ·
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    My Fh is nervous about pictures too. We are going to do an engagement shoot and hopefully that will help. If it doesn't he will get the finest bourbon to drink the day of

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  • TackoLover
    Expert October 2018
    TackoLover ·
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    Sure hope your FH likes alcohol....

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  • DoggoMom
    VIP August 2016
    DoggoMom ·
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    Engagement pictures to help relax him in front of the camera should help.


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  • Kathleen Smith
    Kathleen Smith ·
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    I highly encourage that all talking about how he takes pictures stop. No coaching, no practicing, nothing. Let the photographer guide both of you.

    It's like when a parent coaches their child to "smile" and then gets mad when the child does exactly as they are told when being photographed.

    Let your photograph handle him and decide what approach would be best.

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