We are about two months out from the wedding so naturally, many the big and small things are planned. I have asked my groom many times if he would like to take part in planning the wedding. He did a little bit at the beginning but he wasn't terribly interested in doing a lot. I did most of the planning with his mom, my mom, and both of our sisters. At two months out, he now wants to start changing stuff and seems to be spending unnecessary money that we can save for our married life like buying furniture.
My parents were very generous and have provided cash for planning that was done at the end of last year. They aren't rich by any means and wanted us to have a nice wedding. He wants my parents to pay for the fancy stuff that he has now decided to pic out which is adding up to $3,000 more after we just discussed not spending too much money on one day. His parents aren't paying for anything and he wont ask them to in fear that they will say no. I was aware that he has expensive taste but he shouldn't on my parents dime and on our future life's dime.
We are having a rustic themed wedding because it is both beautiful and very inexpensive which we were both totally ok with, now, he wants to have an expensive rustic wedding and is trying to change stuff two months out.
What do I do?
