Groom at bridal shower?

We’re doing a couples shower rather than a bridal shower! I would rather have both there but to each their own. I think it depends on the guests you invite as well.

We have a couple in our bridal party that's staying with us the weekend of our shower so FH and one of his groomsmen will be showing up toward the end of the shower to help organize and clean up the country club. Otherwise I probably wouldn't even tell him to come because I think he'd be so embarrassed to be in the spotlight. 😂 It's all couple's preference in the end.

My fiance was at my bridal shower, but in a different room, hanging out with his dad. He came in for opening gifts and dessert!

My shower is an hour and a half from where we live at my parents house so my FH is coming and he’s going to bring some of his family so they all don’t have to take so many cars.

My shower is in the party room of my building and I’m confident my FH doesn’t want to be there lol.

Were doing an actual wedding shower. You should definitely have him there if you want.

This is the decision of the hosts. Was he invited?

I brought my groom, he had a great time and i think the ladies liked visiting with him (we spent zero time together until presents lol). we did not have the dads though.

It’s the choice of the host, but I wish my fiancé had been there. I don’t like being up alone in front of everyone and really would have preferred a couples shower.

Mine was all ladies -- my FH was out of town that weekend!

My FH will be there for presents and to help load the car

We're doing a wedding shower, inviting both males & females. So yes, my groom will be there and present. He deserves every right to be showered with gifts as much as I do (:

I want my fiancé to come halfway through. So he can socialize a bit and meet some family members from out of town that he hasn’t met yet. Plus all the attention on just me for the day makes me a tad anxious haha

FH came to our family shower since two of his aunts were traveling from NJ (we live in VA) and I had never met them before. Since he hadn't seem them for over a year, he wanted to spend as much time with them as he could.

He also came to the shower my coworkers threw for me and we had the first games of March Madness playing on a SMART board in the background (I'm a teacher and the shower was in the library). It was awesome!

My Bridal shower was pretty much just me, but he showed up shortly after opening gifts to say thank you and hello and carry the gifts to the truck.

In our circle it's common for the guys to go do something all together while the shower is taking place and then come when the shower is just about done (we don't open gifts - clear wrapping or unwrapped). Then the after shower party starts & most of the relatives leave, friends stay & it goes all night. This is what we have done for the last 3 girls who have gotten married, we have a really large circle of great friends, I am hoping they keep tradition with my shower.

Like PP said, in our circle too, the guys hang out while the girls are at the shower then he shows up at the end top help with the gifts - I don't know if FH will want to do that... we haven't discusses the logistics of the day, all I know is that I will be away for a few hours, and I have plenty of cars coming to the direction of my house so I don't really need him to come help me load another car lol.. I am pretty cool with the fact I will be on my own, I know all his family for over 6 years now and they are like my own, so I will be comfortable and having fun.

Mine is 4/21 and IDK if FH will go or not. I'd like him to be there to help open stuff up since it's for both of us. Guess we will see though!

Yep, my groom will be there. I think it's a special time to share with each other in being warmed with gifts for the BOTH of you