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I have the same date. I haven’t postponed yet I am waiting until mid May but it certainly isn’t looking good. I am planning a great plan b... 🥵

Glad you were able to get a new date!

It totally sucks. We moved from this June to next which was a painful decision to make, but the best one for us. It feels like all the fun has been sucked out of planning. We've had some challenges rescheduling the hotel block but we'll get over it. I feel you! Do something nice for yourself like maybe order flowers for delivery or sign up for a bridal box. Or watch a wedding movie and get a good cry out. Take care

We are on July 10, 2020. We were going to wait until mid-May to decide, but this is such a mess. We are talking about moving to next year too. Such a bummer, but we have a lot of family and friends that are "high-risk" and who knows if everyone would feel comfortable coming. Our guest list was already on the smaller side. Plus our immediate family has hinted for us to move the date to later this year. I just don't feel like that would give it long enough to pass. I have a friend that was going to get married on June 27, 2020. They had to reschedule for June 6, 2021. Another friend is getting married on July 25, 2020, and she is waiting it out at the moment. I am weighing the pros and cons and see what others are doing. Best of luck to everyone!!!

Hello ladies
We are all on the same boat, I'm still waiting until next month to know what to do, I have been thinking alot about this and I just cant except the idea of postponeding my wedding, a wedding is just a day but marriage is for life, Another thing what if the same thing happens next year what if the second wave of this pandemic happens and we go through this again! then what ! I would really appreciate your feedback on this.

You’ve come to the right please, a lot of us know how you feel. As if wedding planning wasn’t stressful enough, now we have the uncertainty of what will happen thrown at us!! I read another forum that was focusing on the positive, talking about different things you can do with the extra time- for instance because you’ll have more time to save, splurging on a bigger honeymoon or other wedding extras. Are you eloping? Our wedding was supposed to be August 14th and we are eloping on our original date and postponing the reception to next fall. The idea we can still get married when we’ve been planning to the last 250 days has helped me. Wish you the best during this crazy planning process!!

I’m so sorry, you have every right to feel sad.


But your friend is right. Try to find some positives like plan a better wedding. Although if you need to take some time away to focus on other things to feel better, do that too!

Sending you so much virtual love and support!! It totally sucks - and you're allowed to be upset about it! Take a planning break if you need one, pamper yourself, plan some special dates at home, and keep venting here where we totally understand your feelings.

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Thank you Katherine for your words of inspiration, now I am going to plan on something very special. We are not eloping, but do plan to get legally married on our original date. I called our county clerk yesterday and they said it is a process but can be done. July 25th is the date of our first date so we wanted to make it special. Hope all works out for the best.

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Hello Viktoria

Plan B is excellent. Hope it works out for you. I'm in California and we have been extended to the end of May, at this rate it may continue. May be different where you are at. Really hoping for the best.

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Thank you, It does help.

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Hi Lynda

Thank you for your idea of doing something for myself now.

We are postponing our June 20th wedding to June 19, 2021, this sucks!

Are you sending out another invitation and rsvp for your new date?? I'm torn on what to do since our rsvps have not all come back yet.

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Hi Emily

We actually never sent out the invitations. We had placed the order around the time California went on shelter in place. We held on getting them.

I agree this does suck, I am sorry you are going through this.