Great Guy Friends and Where to put them

You can have men on your side and he can have women on his if he wanted. My husband had his two sisters as groomswomen.

I agree with Kelly, they can be bridesmen. I’m assuming that you are saying your FH doesn’t want them as his groomsmen, which I agree with him isn’t really appropriate if he’s not close with them. If your FH had a sister she would be your SIL and it would be a completely different situation including her as a bridesmaid or MOH. I think you could certainly make them ushers, but if they are as important to you as it sounds they should be standing up there with you.

Your bridal party should be your nearest and dearest only! Have them in your BP if you want to. Hope your FH warms up to the idea, but don't let him stop you from including your close guy friends!

My bridal party is 2 bridesmaids and 2 bridesmen. When we started planning the wedding the first thing I thought of was the two guys being my bridal party. They have been with me through more then anyone else in the world and I cant imagine getting married without them. Even if we joked at first how great they would both look in dresses, we all decided they will match the grooms guys in the suit but their tie will be the same color as my girls dresses, while the groomsmen tie's will be a shade lighter then the groom, so my guys feel like they belong on my side.

I'm having my two brothers stand next to me so you could definitely have them in you bridal party! As important as my brothers are to me I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings by making them feel less important as an usher, so they will be bridesmen.

I actually have a bridesman and he will be standing on my side with my bridesmaids. A wedding party can be whomever you want that has impacted your life!

You can have who ever you want next to you. If they are your friends and you want them apart of your day, ask them to be your Bridesmen

I have a bridesman standing on my side. We've been best friends for 30 years so I couldn't imagine him anywhere else. He is wearing what the groomsmen wear and going to the bachelor party. We gave him the option of his role and it has worked out perfectly so far.

My fiancé is having two women on his side. You don’t get a say in who your partner chooses to stand with them. So sorry f you want them to sand with you your fiancé needs to learn to deal.