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Casey
Beginner May 2019

Got my dress! What about alterations?

Casey, on October 25, 2018 at 1:21 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 17

So I bought my dress this past summer but neglected to show you lovely ladies! Now I'm coming up on my first alterations and have a question, especially for those women in more conservative religious weddings.

I love my dress. It's beautiful and has a lot of va-va-voom, but I worry it may be too much sex appeal for my traditional Catholic wedding. I also wonder how it will come across to my FBIL, who is also the priest who will be marrying us. I don't want to lose how gorgeous the dress is, but I don't want to appear immodest before the altar either!

In my shoes, would you opt to add sleeves to the gown? Or is it better to go with a wrap or cover up of some kind? Can you share pics of what you did in your wedding (or are planning to do!) to cover up? Pics are of me in my dress to give you a good idea of what I'm trying to work with.

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Thanks in advance!

17 Comments

Latest activity by Freemo, on May 22, 2019 at 8:03 AM
  • J
    Savvy November 2018
    Jessica ·
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    Your dress is gorgeous. I think you will be fine with this dress without adding sleeves or a cover up.
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  • A
    Super September 2019
    Anna ·
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    Beautiful dress! I think you should be fine. Almost every cousin of mine had a similar dress to yours (strapless ball gown/Aline) and all had extremely catholic ceremonies. Never heard anything negative about it
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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
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    I don't think that dress is immodest at all! Everything that needs to be covered up is covered so I think you'll be ok. I've seen some really immodest dresses and this isn't one lol!
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  • latasha
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    latasha ·
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    I also agree and think the dress is fine. I come from a mega religious family (all uncles are ministers, bishops...all aunts are evangelists etc, all cousins are musicians or singers, BILs are pastors/musicians, sister is a gospel singer, father was a pastor haha) and this is FINNNNNE to me! Lolol. Wear that dress girl!

    :-)
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    I think the dress is perfectly fine as is! You look beautiful and it's not revealing in the wrong places!
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    Master January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    I think you dress is perfectly fine.
    Have you checked with the church to see if they have any guide lines.
    I bought my dress right away, but I still called the church I planned on using before we went to check on any restrictions.
    If you do feel you want to cover up a bit, maybe use a wrap or one of those little jackets, I forget it’s name
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  • Autumn
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Autumn ·
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    I love your dress! You really don’t have enough cleavage showing for it to be considered immodest, and I think your shoulders and arms showing are totally fine. I am Catholic as well so I understand your concern and wanting to err on the side of caution, but you really don’t have to. Perfectly modest! Your dress is beautiful ❤️
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  • Kat
    Expert September 2019
    Kat ·
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    As everyone else has stated it looks great. My family is very traditional Catholic as well and I don't think anyone would bat an eye at your dress. Keep as is, unless you really want to add sleeves, then go for it. It's your day =] your dress is beautiful, by the way!
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  • WED18
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    WED18 ·
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    I’m a catholic mom. My middle D got married in the church wearing a strapless dress and I didn’t think twice about it. If you feel you should cover your shoulders for the mass you can always add a sheer bolero and then take it off for the reception, but I don’t think you need to.

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  • Melissa
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    Melissa ·
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    You are fine with the way the dress is. No modifications needed for modesty.
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  • queenbee
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    queenbee ·
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    I don’t think the dress is immodest at all! It looks great on you. Almost all my cousins who got married in a traditional Catholic mass ceremony wore strapless dresses and had way more hanging out than you do! 😳 So I wouldn’t worry about it or add sleeves. If you want, for the ceremony you could wear a wrap or shawl to cover up more, if you feel uncomfortable!
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  • Heather
    Super April 2018
    Heather ·
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    No need to add sleeves or use a wrap! I was married in a Catholic church a few months ago in a strapless dress and it was fine! I even asked my priest beforehand if I needed to cover my shoulders and he said no!

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  • MaryClare
    Dedicated November 2018
    MaryClare ·
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    Another Catholic here! I think the dress is beautiful and not too much at all. But if you’re gonna think too much about or be fidgeting the whole ceremony bc your worried about it in the church, wear the wrap for the ceremony and lose it for the reception. You’re gonna want to be focused on the ceremony not worried about your dress. The nice thing about a wrap too is you can always take it off during the ceremony if you decide you’re comfortable. Congrats on you’re marriage. It’s so cool that your FBIL gets to marry you!
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  • Maren
    Champion October 2021
    Maren ·
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    Hi Casey! Congrats on finding the dress! Smiley heart You look gorgeous in it and you'll be absolutely stunning on your wedding day! Are you going with this veil, too? Smiley heart

    I agree with the others, I don't think you're showing too much at all! Especially with a veil, your neckline is not too showy and I think it is perfectly modest for your traditional Catholic wedding.

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  • Cheryl&rock
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    Cheryl&rock ·
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    From your post I was expecting illusion in the bust or a high slit! You're dress is beautiful and needs no changes!

    As other PP's have said, all the right places are covered. Your dress is beautiful and you look beautiful in it!

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  • alysmw
    Devoted March 2019
    alysmw ·
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    Lace sleeves would look amazing on this dress. Lace sleeves are feminine, elegant, modest, but your future husband will probably look at you and think "Oh! Lace on her skin... how sexy!"

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    Just Said Yes May 2019
    Freemo ·
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    I think that dress came out beautifully!

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