Instead of doing the bouquet toss, I'm instead going to use the flowers from the bouquet (and extras if necessary) to give one flower to each of the girls in my wedding party, both of our mothers and grandmothers and great grandmothers. One of my grandmothers passed away a couple of years ago though, so for her in going to give her widowed husband (or her son if he is not able) the flower to put on her grave or next to a picture of her in their house when they go home to another state. (Which one would be better?) Also his great grandmother probably won't be there, so I'll just give it to his mom to give it to her ASAP since we'll be on honeymoon for two weeks. (Note: the only sister between the two of us is in the wedding party, so we're not leaving her out)