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FutureMrsD
VIP June 2017

Godmother's dress...why?

FutureMrsD, on August 29, 2016 at 4:51 AM

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My godmother is my moms best friend from high school. Shes been like an aunt to me, more so than my actual aunts. She was shopping the other day and bought her dress for my wedding already and its my wedding color with bling. She is the type of person who has to one-up everyone (still love her...

My godmother is my moms best friend from high school. Shes been like an aunt to me, more so than my actual aunts. She was shopping the other day and bought her dress for my wedding already and its my wedding color with bling. She is the type of person who has to one-up everyone (still love her though). But she's going to upstage my mom for sure as they are sitting at the front family table together. My mom is on the plus side and it is going to be a struggle finding a dress to compliment her. Im not gonna ask her to get a different dress, but she knew what my color was. Just venting, but ugh. Now Im gonna stress about my mas dress and making her feel beautiful. Shes super self conscious as is it and I want her to be as comfortable as possible and feel like a million bucks, lol. Anybody else have family out there trying to steal the spotlight a little? Lol

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  • Melody
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    Melody ·
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    My mom found hers at jcpenny and she was glowing in it. She is plus size as well and stuggles with something flattering. But there were a lot of options to choose from.

    She choose this. I couldnt find my picture of her in it though.


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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    Try Azazie. I don't know if your mom is looking for a dress or a gown, but they've got quite a selection, and most of their gowns come in about 30 colors -- including royal blue.

    Take a look at some of these (and I believe they all go from size 0 to 30):

    http://www.azazie.com/products/azazie-jaycee-mother-of-the-bride-dress?color=burgundy

    http://www.azazie.com/products/azazie-aracely-mother-of-the-bride-dress?color=ink-blue

    http://www.azazie.com/products/azazie-lucille-mother-of-the-bride-dress?color=regency

    And listen, Future Mrs. D., I just have to say that I think you're a total sweetheart. You remind me of my daughter. I have a sister who has the money, taste, and flair to show up at every wedding (and backyard BBQ) looking like she just walked out if a couture catalogue. Whenever I see her, my tailored black suit and slightly sequined blouse suddenly seem so understated. The truth is I probably wouldn't feel comfortable in her clothing, but still, something in me thinks, "What if?". So, with a family wedding about to happen in the next few weeks, my daughter is on the hunt for something amazing. Her number one rule -- it cannot be black, lol.

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  • FutureMrsD
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    I was thinking maybe silver for her, doesn't have to be royal blue. I just want her to look pretty because she's really never felt pretty her whole life. Shes so excited about my wedding and I want her to have an amazing time and feel amazing. Yea its my day, but I care about my moms feelings. Shes got the biggest heart and thinks of everyone but herself. I want her to shine a little too Smiley smile

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  • FutureMrsD
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    @The Centerpiece Flowers Thank you!!!! Looking them up now!

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  • Elizabeth
    Master December 2016
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    I look at the dress your godmother chose and I'm like "really?" It's not a big deal. Your mom will find a dress she loves and it won't matter what your godmother wore.

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  • FutureMrsTurcios
    Super December 2016
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    Maybe something like this?


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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
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    Wait- that short dress with the little rhinestone collar lining is the one that's getting grief?

    That's such a none issue-- no one is upstaging anyone in that dress.

    There are tons of other beautiful dresses to pick from for your mom and she'll look elegant and fabulous.

    #notthehilltodieonorfreakthefuckoutabout

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  • FutureMrsD
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    @Jorocka sorry for truly caring about my moms feelings? Re read the comments. It was a vent post. Godmother #2 much?

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  • SailawaySomppi
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    Find her that dress, but something Im doing for my mom that day is paying for her hair and make up. My mom wouldnt do it otherwise... so Im surprising her with it. so thats another suggestion if you want to help her feel amazing that day. ETA: I also agree your godmothers dress isnt all that.

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  • FutureMrsD
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    @sailawaysomppi Thats a great idea! My ma would never do that. She hates spending money on herself. And yea, its not the best dress in the world but for what my ma had in mind for herself it crushed her a little. Ive been trying to get her to be a bit more daring with bling and thats about as much as shed go haha

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  • Shropshire2Davis
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    FMD you could try something like this for your mom? I was just looking at the MOB dresses on Azazie and was thinking "that would have looked amazing on mom" (my mom was plus sized as well), maybe it would look good on your mom?


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  • SailawaySomppi
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    I like that^^ and get her some jewelry for bling!

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  • FutureMrsD
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    @shropshire2davis I saw that one too! Definitely one of my favorites. It would hide her arms perfectly without her sweating up a storm in a short sleeved jacket. Thanks for sharing!

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