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Toni
Expert January 2020

Giving my fiancé something to plan!

Toni, on June 4, 2019 at 3:51 PM Posted in Planning 0 11
My fiancé has had very little input in the wedding planning🤭 for the most part I ask if he likes something and he just rolls with it. He has been kinda bummed that he hasn’t helped with planning much but he says he just doesn’t care about how the cake looks or how the tables are set up or what kind of flowers yada yada so we came up with a new task! He’s planning the entire honeymoon-destination, activities, dates, food, everything and I won’t know anything of what he has planned until the day we board the plane. He is so excited and feels so involved now 😊 anyone else doing something similar?

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Latest activity by Sarah, on June 5, 2019 at 9:36 AM
  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    My FH is planning the rehearsal dinner with his dad; no clue what to expect. I know they have narrowed it down to 2 places. I love both places so I am just going to go with it. FH has also put his foot down on who we are inviting. We are a lot of out of town guests coming in, but realized we just can't invite everyone to the RD. I'm happy not to have something else on my plate. I did give them a list of ideas to look into. So now they just have to pick once it gets closer!

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  • Toni
    Expert January 2020
    Toni ·
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    Awesome! It’s nice to hear another fiancé helping with planning 😊😊
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  • Lauren
    VIP September 2019
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    The registry! FH loves the scanner! Also he does all the cooking so he was excited to get new toys! I personally could care less how many different versions of nesspresso makers there are, but he knows them all.

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  • Toni
    Expert January 2020
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    LOL 😂 amazing!
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
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    My FH loved putting in his opinion when it came to the menu and music. He was even more excited when he bought his groomsmen gifts and goody bags for our FG and RBs.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I gave mine smaller things to do but he's helping me with some tasks.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    My FH only really cares about the music and the food. He says I can do/have/plan whatever makes me happy, as long as he gets a lot of input on the music. And he wants to attend the tastings for food and dessert. I would never do those things without him, but he wanted to make sure! lol

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    My fiance is pretty involved with planning but I'm for sure the main planner for wedding & honeymoon. My fiance really liked venue tours, catering tastings, dessert tastings, engagement pictures, ordering his groomsmen gifts, trying on suits, registering, stamping/addressing save the dates & envelopes, monitoring RSVPs and hotel block, etc.! Now that we are closer, he is going to all the vendor meetings.

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  • Katie
    Devoted September 2020
    Katie ·
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    These are all such great ideas, I can't wait to come up with a task for my guy ❤️
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  • Paula
    Super September 2019
    Paula ·
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    My fiance is in charge of dealing with DJ, all meetings and most of the music. He is in charge of choosing the song for our 1st dance, the "funny" wedding poses and places to visit on our honeymoon
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  • Sarah
    Devoted October 2018
    Sarah ·
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    My husband loved making our playlist for the DJ and he did all of the research on our rehearsal dinner venues. I personally am a control freak, so I enjoyed doing the work and just bouncing ideas off him which he liked doing! We would go on weekly walks and talk wedding details, it was really nice!

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