Giving gifts at bachelorette party?

I'm getting whoever attends the Bachelorette party, a gift and then something extra for my MOHs. That way no one feels left out but it's a 'thank you for coming'

I agree with your logic, everyone should receive something or nobody should receive it. You can give MOH something before/at the end of festivities as a thank you- but I'd roll my eyes if MOH got a MOH wine glass and drank from it all weekend when other guests got nothing from the bride

Something more neutral might be good for the bachelorette party if there are non-bridal party members there. "Bride's Entourage" or "Team Bride" could work for everyone! You can always give the BMs extra gifts before the wedding while you get ready so that the fun wine glasses can still be in pictures!

I ordered these in all "Team Bride" for my BFF's bachelorette party so there would be no "wedding party vs. not" tension over the weekend: https://www.etsy.com/transaction/230325697

-Alyssa, Tiara to Toe Bridal Styling

I think you either have to give something to everyone or nobody. It doesn't have to be the same thing, if you wanted to get those wine classes for your bridal party and then something else for the rest I think thats okay as long as it not an obvious super nice gift for some and cheap gift for others. I think the Bride's Entourage and Team Bride stuff is super cute.

Are we suppose to give gifts at Bachelorette party?

@patricia - you don't have to but I would at least give something to the hosts before or after

Well to be honest there will be about 11-15 girls in attendance, I cannot afford to give everyone a top. I have my MOH and 3 bridesmaids and that 1 friend that will be helping plan it. What if I just give the others a pin I've seen some that says "team bride" or something like that. Plus some girls will be invited thru my MOH they are her friends that I get a long with. I've attended and helped plan 2 other bachelorette parties and didn't even get a thank you card lol, I didn't mind.

Why do you have to give anyone a shirt? Would you really want to wear a shirt that says "Bridesmaid"?

I wouldn't give your BMs their gifts at your bachelorette if there are going to be others there as well who wouldn't receive gifts. And I don't see why you would have to give everyone a gift...isn't being invited to a fun party enough? Usually people bring gifts to the person hosting a party, not the other way around.

Stephanie, yes I would. Especially if the bride bought it for me.

Mayra, okay... are you requiring/expecting them to wear these shirts during the bachelorette party? Some people might not like that their outfit is being dictated to them. Just something to consider.

I know my girls, whom are also my sisters, bff and cousin so yea I'm sure they will love it!! Plus my bachelorette party will consist of 2 days and various activies so they will obviously not wear it when we go to the club, but maybe the next day when we go do girls stuff or eat. Thanks for your input tho!

I think I'm just going to get these tops for my girls, and pins for the rest of the girls. One of my co-workers whom might also be coming with us, said that sounds like a good idea and she would not feel left out if she didn't get a top because she's just being invited to have fun, and my bridesmaid and MOH have actually helped out throughout the whole thing.